2006-08-03 19:09:29 · 15 answers · asked by skunzsgirlie 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You've probably settled into the comfort zone and mediocrity of the relationship. All is familar now and the zip has been forgotten. Mix your time spent together up some. Go for a date sans kids, like you did when you before you were married. Alter your daily routine with him. Do something totally spontaneous with him or for him. It just might bring some spark back, and we all fall into that at some time in our relationships, just jolt some variety into it.
2006-08-03 19:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by midnightdealer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People change, and sometimes they grow apart. That's the natural order of things, and marriage can be an unnatural way of forcing a relationship together when it should be ending.
It probably doesn't help that he's not as sexually attractive as he used to be. Life in modern society. Men's bodies are made for chasing things down and killing them with spears for food, or for defending their women and children from carnivores.
2006-08-04 02:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by Baxter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change as they experience life, chances are you have both changed.
some people say women mature quicker than men, I do not believe that I beleive people can mature differently.
If you and your husband split up both of you would have to engage in honeymoon behavior with different people.
try talking to your husband about life.
most men find it difficult to talk about feelings, but life can be dissected to reveal feelings.
life is a journey find out what is his desired destination and maybe you can spend the rest of your lives enjoying the journey to reach it.
2006-08-04 02:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by matthewoborne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can. Remember why you fell in love with him. If things aren't the same, try to make them better. Start the cycle of love all over again. Don't let things fizzle out. If you start doing nice/sexy/special things for him, he will do the same in return for you.
2006-08-04 02:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by Tish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love needs to be maintained. both of you changed, try to change the way you express your love.
2006-08-04 02:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spice things up a little, do things he used to like that you used to do for him. my husband noticed that we were growing apart and he started to massage my feet on a daily basis like he used to early in our relationship and it took us back to where we used to be... in love. try things that haven't been done in a long time.
2006-08-04 02:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by RocKsTaR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE CHANGES AS TIME GOES BY---AT FIRST IT WAS RED-HOT I'M SURE--BUT PEOPLE COOL OFF AND HOPEFULLY WERE THE PASSION FADES --A FREINDSHIP GROWS. JUST REMEMBER YOUR BOTH NOT THE SAME PERSONS THAT YOU WERE AT FIRST--EVERYBODY GROWS IN DIFFERENT WAYS THRU THEIR LIVES!
2006-08-04 02:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's grown ugly and has a repulsive attitude
or maybe when you first met and married he was putting up a farce and wasnt really the person you thought he was.
2006-08-04 02:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by deluxe_pow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably becouse you know see a side to hm you do not like you need to talk with him
2006-08-04 02:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by Mim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're tired of the same ol' same ol'.... this is why people divorce and cheat on spouses. you're well on the way there.
2006-08-04 02:13:02 · answer #10 · answered by warriorn639mr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋