Considering a threesome. For the fun of being with another girl, something I haven't really done before. I'm in a relationship with a wonderful guy, who would LOVE to do it, but I've heard that these things really mess up relationships. I'm worried I'll get jealous or self conscious. Thoughts?
2006-08-03 18:59:58 · 18 answers · asked by floormee 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
The way you wrote your question gives the strong impression that you are in love with your boyfriend.
If that's right, do NOT get into a threesome. You gotta be lonely and in the mood for breaking rules and not caring about the consequences to do that without being really sorry.
You, for example, would get shockingly jealousand self-conscious afterwards. Yup.
2006-08-03 19:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Hey girl i'm like you i have done a threesome before and the bond that you and your man have can be messed up expecially if you are the type that does not want to see your man with another woman because it is hard and he probalary would not like it if it was him you and another guy so really think about that before you do it
2006-08-04 02:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by heatherlynnvickery 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I don't care how "strong-minded" you are, it is eventually going to come back to bite you. There will be jealousy for sure. Think about it. You, your guy and another girl... aren't you going to start thinking about her and if maybe your guy likes her body better or something? What if she gets more attention than you? What if he starts feeling left out?
I'd think about it VERY carefully before considering a threesome.
2006-08-04 02:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Quicksilver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a STRONG relationship and lots of self confidence in both parties to survive a 3-some. What is the chance that you might think your partner is giving too much attention to the 3rd. That maybe he thinks you compare badly to the 3rd i.r.o. looks, performance etc.
Can be fun, but very dangerous in a relationship.
2006-08-04 02:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have friends who were together for 20 years. At some point in their relationship they began to participate in that, along with swinging. I got an email about a month ago that they were getting divorced. Their lifestyle played a big role in that decision.
2006-08-04 02:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can get messy. i've been there myself. my girlfriend and i have done it a couple of times. it wat a great sexual experience, but after it's over things change the bar is raised on what is considered 'kinky'. so if it was just a one time thing make sure you both understand that it is. if not one of you might want to do it again but the other is uninterested and then things can get problematic.
but if you decied to go through with it, first lay down some ground rules on what sort of actions you would not want to happen i.e.(watching your boyfriend actually have sex with the other girl). so be careful but try to have fun with it. you only live once!
2006-08-04 02:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by waygodair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the people. I know of long term threeway relationships that work just as well as two way, and of one night things that destroy them. The bond needs to be strong, and there needs to be honesty and trust between the involved parties.
2006-08-04 02:26:13 · answer #7 · answered by me41987 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely NOT! Me and my man has threesomes all the time and it actually enhances the relationship, it's a whole lot of fun.
2006-08-04 02:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by tatiana_madden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes a 3 some can distroy a relationship
2006-08-04 02:26:18 · answer #9 · answered by Alexia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
They just mess up the sheets
2006-08-04 02:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋