I like a guy I have known him for about 10yrs, we were great friends then didn't see each other for about 4 yrs and when we caught up again, that's when our relationship changed. We've gone on dates, and worked together; history together. He is very hard to read, I won’t see or hear from him for months at a time. There have been times when we have talked for many hours. Other times, I have called him and he doesn’t sound interest in talking to me, I have wound up in other relationships to find him very disappointed. I have tried to give up on him, then he shows backup in my life. I have told him that I like him, vise versa, but when I have told him that we should go out sometime, he says sure I’ll call you, then he never does or he forgets about the date and calls last minute to say he can’t make it. He is very busy, so am I, so I understand but no forward motion is a drag. It’s a constant flip flop! I can’t figure him out, I have never liked a guy like this; what do you think?
2006-08-03 18:54:37 · 4 answers · asked by JustCurous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my guy is hard to read,, we dated once didnt work out,, he knew i had been hurt so afraid to ask me again,, but now were together. ive known him for 6 years..... It really sounds like he wants u to wait around on him until he is ready to settle down,, sounds like he is just to busy for a relationship right now,,and is jealous when u get in one so i can tell he has feelings for u,,,, just do like i did, go on with ur life, dont show him u are waiting on him and if hes interested he will latch on or he will be afraid he will loose u thats what happened with my bf, GOOD LUCK and i hope it works out the way u want it to...
2006-08-03 19:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, you and my sister have almost the same situation. The one she loves is out of the country and she gave up with the communication because when the guy text her and she'll text back it will take a million years before he text her back. And those happenings made her feel as if she's not worth it. So what she did is put it ALL in the hands of God. Let Him work His way in their lives. If their ment to be they will be together someday.
I guess that is the best thing you can do right now coz you yourself don't know what's going on inside his mind and what are his plans. So while he's still figuring out what he want to happen live your life. You don't wanna be stuck waiting for someone who doesn't know what he wants.....
I hope that helps.....God Bless You
2006-08-04 02:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by my051688 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is tryin to keep you all to himself, while he explores life. He my not be playin you with another girl, but he is playin you. If hes not willing to be in a committed relationship with you, then you should move on. You never know what good guy will come your way if your tryin to hold on to something thats not there. You know wha i mean? Cause i've been through the same thing and i had to make the hard decision to step to him and let him know how i felt about the situation, and what i wanted out of the relationship. And we have been together in a happy relationship for 2 yrs now!!!
2006-08-04 02:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. BJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back and forth.... we knew eachother in NC, met up in WV, now he's in seattle and i'm in florida... i wanted him to be the one for me. but now our lives are different
2006-08-04 01:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by tomiyo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋