Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 7 years and we have 2 kids together, he use to be able to go for over an hour and multiple times in the same night, now it's over in about 5 minutes and he is tired right after...i never get to climax anymore, how should i approach him on this issue and what should i say to not hurt his feelings??
Honest Adult Answers only please, no rude responses!! Thanks!!
2006-08-03 18:10:23 · 6 answers · asked by bootyliciouslatina692 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well I think KATE is just trying to talk about everything here. Whats happening is that "the honeymoon phase" is over in your relationship. The relationship has lost its flame and is unexciting. Something needs to give to put that spark back in there, I will be honest with you - kids do put a burden on relationships. Start going out more, trying new things - just get out of the house once and awhile. Drag him out if you have too and get a babysitter. The relationship is stale and you need to do something to renew it. Its obvious that is oblivious to it, but its great that your calling out for help. Good luck to you.....
2006-08-03 18:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Baghdad Pete ! 4 · 7⤊ 2⤋
I would sit down with him and honestly tell him what you feel. Communication is best when its fully honest without holding anyting back. You might not want to fully say "honey you arent pleasing me anymore" but in some kind words put it out there.
Another thing is do you know if he's stressed out? I've learned that some men aren't as in to sex or don't want it when they are stressed. Its a normal thing. So just talk to him about it.
2006-08-04 01:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want and need more and if he can't help you someone else will
2006-08-04 02:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by miss v8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him dont feel shy, coz he's your bf.
2006-08-04 01:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by dianne45a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave the loser
2006-08-04 01:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by aaron b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the poor man is tired...leave him alone and just please yourelf
2006-08-04 01:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by lippygloss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋