I am very strong on abstinance or saving sex for marraige. I just think I need to get through HS and get my goals of becomg a teacher in reach. Am I wrong for wanting to save sex for marraige? I just don't wanna be a teen mom. I've seen how my cousins have struggled.
2006-08-03 17:15:14 · 33 answers · asked by Valerie M 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Your not wrong, your right on track. Keep up the good work, your doing a good job. Keep your best interests at heart, and you know what happens when you don't save it for marriage. Give yourself a pat on the back. :)
2006-08-03 17:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by ChaiTea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not wrong for wanting to save sex for marraige. That is a great and honorable thing that you are trying to do for yourself. Most girls do not understand how having your virginity is a gift and once you give it away, you will never get it back again. You need to think of it this way... The choice of having sex is your decision. No body or anything should force you into doing something that you do not want to do. The only person that should be able to make good choices for you is yourself. Remember that advice.
2006-08-04 07:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by spyder90tishuez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is more of a mental thing than anything. It is a feeling you are bound to feel at some point in your life. Waiting until marriage in my opinion is a choice that is neither right nor wrong. If anything though, waiting until marriage may make it a little awkward the first time because you wouldn't know what you are doing.
Waiting until marriage for many is a religious ordeal, and they believe that it is god's greatest gift for their husbands (or something along those lines). I do not think it is right or wrong either way, I believe you should be entitled to your own opinion. I happen to be an Atheist. I have mine, you have yours, and that's what we are here for.
Hope this helped!
2006-08-03 17:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think you are wrong? I am sure it is this society that is putting pressure on you, but don't let it. You will be much happier if you stick to your goals. You are supposed to wait until marriage. If everyone did that and stayed faithful, there wouldn't be sexually transmitted diseases, teenage pregnancy, and desperate girls who can't understand why the boys they love dump them after they let them into their pants. Wouldn't it be wonderful if you could marry a guy who waited? They do exist even now. Good luck with your future.
2006-08-03 17:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by fungirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,that sounds good!stick to that!i'm doing that 2,im in a program called true love waits,where u wait,so I think u should wait 2!and glad u dont wanna be a teen mom,cause im sure it's hard,listen to your heart,and wait for the right person!good luck with that,ill cheer u on encourage u,and u encourage me!
2006-08-03 17:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Mariah™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, in fact it's a wonderful thing to know. Sex is wonderful when it's with the right person. Though it can be hard because you see others and wonder what it would be like. You get alot of credit. Not many have chosen that.
2006-08-03 17:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also in high school and saving sex for marriage. I don't think it is wrong to want to save sex until you are married. Also I am glad to know I am not the only one with this value.
2006-08-03 17:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Fancy♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in there I knew alot of teen moms in high school it was hard for them and still is taking care of them by the self. Go get you degree and and get married and spend a few years alnoe with each other first before u have kids.
2006-08-03 17:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by lisa h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell NO YOUR NOT WRONG, your fine stay the way you are don't listen and do what everyone else is doing. wait until you get marred. It will be very hard to go to school and try to take care of a baby, I can barly clean the house before my husband gets home for work.
2006-08-03 17:25:01 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT WRONG AT ALL!!!! Be proud of yourself for wanting that. its a great quality to save yourself. Virginity is a miraculous thing, to give it away is losing something close to you. i gave my to my fiance, but we aren't married, and honestly, i am a little guilty feeling about it. Just keep your promises to youself about saving yourself. it'll make you feel better in the end. once you get married you'll feel nothing is holding you back now, and you can set yourself free, instead of risking your purinty in a little relationship.
2006-08-03 17:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by teardrop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋