Ok... don't be rude... or ironic... ha,ha... plz??? Either way you can laugh if you want...
Um... haven't had sex yet (ever). No bf. And somewhat I fear to that first time... lol! Um... what's your advice... aside getting a bf and having sex?
2006-08-03 16:59:44 · 22 answers · asked by Royal Flush 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dont rush it.... it will happen when the time is right for YOU... make sure it is with someone you at least LIKE and respect, and is the same to you.... prefere love and marriage first myself..... God bless
2006-08-03 17:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing funny about it, darlin'
well 1) depends on how old you are- if you're a teen, then for sure for sure, don't rush it. It's not worth it, too many things going on in this society to just have sex cause everyone else is.
2) if you're not a teen, still don't rush it, go out with your friends, meet people, enjoy life to the fullest- and when it's time to do the deed, be sure it's with someone who you've been with for a while- no-one night stands, those are awful, so no matter what you do, be careful, have fun, and all in time- you'll do just fine.
Have you seen the 40 yr old virgin ? believe me- there is a time and place for everything- LOL.
You want your first time to be with someone you care about- so just take your time, and yeah- get yourself a boyfriend first, that's always a start.
But always remember to be safe,
May you have a happy " sex-perience" no matter what.
2006-08-03 17:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this is a little old fashioned for you, but my advise is to wait until you're married. If you've managed to preserve you virginity this long, why throw it away with someone you're not sure is going to even stay with you. Find someone that loves you enough that they're willing to wait until they've made that life long commitment to you. It will be much better and more fulfilling the first time and every time after that if it's with that one person you love (and loves you).
2006-08-03 17:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by aghostprofilebeingempty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise would be to not worry about it. Not everyone is having sex out there! Although the papers and tv are full of it, thats not real tho. Peeps now are giving it away to near enough every person that comes along.
Your first time should be special and so should your parther.
My first time with my fiance (or anyone), he made me wait because he was a virgin. I didn't want to wait and that night was more special because of it. And I didnt think any less of him for doing it for it showed respect for me and for his body.
I think you should be proud that you haven't gave yourself away yet and are waiting for that special man. Good on you. xx
2006-08-03 21:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is your first experience youll remember for life...
take ure time whether u decide to go it with ure hubby or bf just inform em it is ure first time and if they are men enough they will guide u "just the way u like it"
2006-08-03 17:26:31 · answer #5 · answered by Doubting Tomas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a big deal to not have had sex. If anything, I say save it until marriage. Save yourself for someone who truly loves you and deserves, for someone who will be willing to spend his/her entire life with you. Sex should be a almost a sacred experience (not to bring religion in here or anything). Especially your first time, it should definitely be worth it and a pleasant memory for years to come.
It is your body and don't go around giving it to anybody who wants to just play with it for a few minutes and especially don't do it just because people "give" you the looks or they force you.
I am in my twenties, I am still a virgin, and I plan to save it until marriage.
2006-08-03 17:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by The Prince 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill out! who cares if you haven't had sex yet? life's not a sexathon, just go about your life until you find a guy you really love, then the sex will be that much better. plus, no risk of STD or pregnancy from some guy you don't really like.
--another virgin :)
2006-08-03 17:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A time will come so will the right guy besides right now you don't have to worry about birth control or getting any disease yet, enjoy your life dear.
2006-08-03 17:09:17 · answer #8 · answered by musiccrazy006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure the first time is with someone you really love and care about .but the answer to your question it does hurt and the pain will go away after awhile .and ask yourself is he worth losing your virginity.because there's no going back after you do .
2006-08-03 17:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by questions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will come so relax as long as your under 40.
If you over 40 time to pay for it.
2006-08-03 17:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋