Mine thinks i can raise a child on $108.00. a week.
2006-08-03 16:54:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
complains that he has to pay that she is ten!!!
2006-08-03 17:03:29 · update #1
She LIVES under my roof i do it all!!! FEED, CLOTHES, BATHE,TEETH,DOCTOR, LIFE!!! So frustrating!!!
2006-08-03 17:11:06 · update #2
I don't really think the question is why they are so stupid - it's just that people only do to you what you allow them to do. Sometimes the mentality of an immature male (not a man - a REAL man would know that it takes more than $432.00 per month to raise a child - but anyway) knows that it takes more than the little bit of money they are ordered to pay through the court system but because they are so afraid that they are doing something for you instead of their children they refuse to do anymore. Honey a word of advice do what you gotta to do to take care of your baby and if he doesn't think that baby is worth more or needs more financial support than the little bit he is providing - your baby is better off with just your influence anyway - Good luck and stay strong
2006-08-03 17:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by 2deep4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both of You made the child and unfortunately You are doing the hard stuff while he is doing what he excels at. Nothing. You should be getting 20 percent of what he earns. If you are low income there are programs that will help you get by. His bad attitude comes from blaming You for what happened instead of himself. It sounds like he is good at blaming others for his problems. All You can do is make sure there are no more unions with this guy and that the next child will arrive long after you have married a good man. Remember being a daddy does not take smarts. Even dumb animals know how to mate. Be happy your child is healthy and doing well. The joy You get from it are some of the best things in life. Goo luck.
2006-08-04 01:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
108.00 a week not to bad for just one kid.
In most states it is set on yours and his income. So the more he makes the more you will get, but the more you make the less you get. it also has to do with how much time the kid lives with him.
2006-08-04 00:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably inbreeding, is his uncle also his dad or brother? Some men just never grow up, they remain ignorant. Possibly your or his mother or father need to speak to him to educate him on the needs of a child, just the price of diapers and formula are expensive. Good luck !!!
2006-08-04 00:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by robert w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, sounds like he is paying his share
did you think that your baby daddy would be your free ride ticket or something, be happy that he is paying something, my ex is supposed to pay $86 a week and i haven't seen a penny in 2 years so be happy you are getting something out of it
2006-08-04 00:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't squeeze blood out of a turnip. he needs to get a better job, or you need to. It sounds like you need to raise your standards....you have a child to think about.
2006-08-04 00:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe he thinks this, but if it's ordered that it's what he pays, talk to him, see if he can do more. Hopefully your job will balance the rest ?
2006-08-04 00:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by thugtwin1@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GOD!! I f*uckin hate that term, my baby daddy. It's so ghetto. Sorry, but to answer your question, because you need to convince him he needs to find a better job.
2006-08-04 00:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a good man
he's forcing you to live inside your means
2006-08-04 00:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
damn i dont get **** not even a hows my baby doin????? he could care less bout his child....
2006-08-04 00:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by ♫♪♥PUSSaY FART♫♪♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋