I met this guy who I had a stong connection with when I was 14 and on a school trip. We had crushes on each other...but very young and lived a million miles apart. we didnt talk after that really. Then out of the blue I get a email from him, this is 10 years later! Weird we remembered each other. He said he has looked for me on and off ever since that trip. So i was weirded out at first...but then just excited to talk to an old friend. I was happily engaged and months shy of getting married ( i am married now). We talked a lot but just as friends and my fiance was fine witth it and knew b/c he knows I am just a frindly person who loves to meet ppl. Then it gets bad b/c this guy tells me how madly in love he is with me...and how there is a reason for him finding me...then his g/f gets involved and mad at me and i am like i had nothing to do with this...i explained to him we would only be friends and he was fine with it at first...now he doesnt talk to me...i am sad and hurt...
2006-08-03 16:44:48 · 7 answers · asked by melty56 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its not your fault.He is just like you said,a little weird.Try sending him a letter with a different name and address,like make it seem like its 1 of his friends and see what he says.
2006-08-03 16:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by xero666x 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You knew each other when you were 14 and your 24 now. Think about how much you have changed and how much he doesn't know you. Don't you think that a guy is a little weird when he's confessing his love to you and you all haven't seen each other in 10 years? I would be a little creep ed out and relieved that he's no longer talking to me. And if he was so in love and he did all this searching for you, if he really cared why would he stop talking to you after all his hard "work" (stalking)? Are you that desperate for attention that you need someone who doesn't really know you to make you feel this way? Your probably not. So get over it and be glad that your stalker is gone. Don't take offense, its just my suggestion right?
2006-08-03 16:57:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That man must have rely loved you but babe if you are happily married then let it go and make new goels for the time ahead with him keep him in mind (back) you must have loved him a hole
lot to feel this pain i will tell you true love never goes away but puppylove does only you knonw how you feel and what you heart says and the best advice anyone can give you is follow your heart
2006-08-03 16:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to antoher guy.
2006-08-03 16:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are better off without him...u dont need a jerk ruining your marriage...u will make other friends.
2006-08-03 17:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have done all you can do either he will come around or dont worry about it no more
2006-08-03 16:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by sexy_enchanted2320032005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what to do talk to him about this matter that bothers u.
2006-08-03 17:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋