Well, right now I have a crush on a Man and on another woman. If i get married to a man will i stop liking women? HELP
2006-08-03 16:40:24 · 12 answers · asked by Valkyrie 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes, a bisexual person can find love and be happily married. It's all about being faithful to your lover. Being loyal or unloyal is a choice a person makes in a relationship, doesn't matter if you're straight, bi, lesbian, or gay. If you are bi then you will always be attracted to both girls and guys, but that doesn't mean you have to act on it. You don't turn straight or gay depending on who you're with but it's your choice to be loyal or not. If you love the person you are with then you will be happy, just like in any marriage.
2006-08-03 16:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there would be a problem specifically because one of the two is bi. When you find that special someone and you marry out of love, I don't think there would be a need to find somebody else because they're a different sex than your husband/wife. I don't think that being attracted to both sexes guarantees infidelity. Like Average Joe says, they have as good a chance as any other couple.
2016-03-26 22:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't stop liking women, the same way straight women will never stop having crushes on celebrities or men in their office. But it is entirely possible for you to be monogamous, to be happy, and to make someone else happy. Crushes are fine, as long as you don't do anything about them. If you do marry a man, make sure you like him for himself and really want to spend the rest of your life with him. He doesn't need to be used as a homemade ex-gay program or something.
2006-08-03 16:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same rules apply for bi or straight forsake all others. Because a straight ,man marries doesn't mean he's not attracted to other females, but that he won't act on that impulse.
Tammi Dee
2006-08-03 17:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not. one of my best friends was bi and she got married to another woman. she still ikes men just as much but it just ended up that the person she ends up spending the rest of her life with was a woman
2006-08-07 15:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by liluptownhottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, u'll have 2 find a guy an gyrl that r kool wit it or luv u that much. But if u dont then jus say u want a OPEN marrige, they last an no one gets hurt in tha end. Think'a bout it....
2006-08-06 20:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by sophatup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you will always be bi. However, it's the same for heteros. You can be married and still be attracted to other people.
2006-08-03 17:13:24 · answer #7 · answered by me41987 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you won't stop liking/lusting after women. But hopefully you will love you man enough not to stray.
2006-08-05 22:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been married for 13 years and i also like women.believe me the feeling never goes away.explore your feelings.
2006-08-07 11:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by glyttrbgg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the feeling will still be there no matter what . the choice is yours if you tend to react on those urges inside her .if not find a swinger
2006-08-03 18:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋