Okkkkayyy. There is this 15 year old at my school and his name is Billy and he has almost no friends an he is always touching me and chasing me. He has a lisp and i think he is gay. I checked the history of his computer and there was gay porn. I will accept him but i dont know what to believe. Please help. Do you think he is gay?
2006-08-03 16:27:30 · 35 answers · asked by Kaleb R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am not gay, thogh
2006-08-03 16:31:12 · update #1
he kinda tried to rape me... :(
2006-08-03 17:09:04 · update #2
No question about it.
2006-08-03 16:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him that you are his friend and you'll be there for him no matter what. Then ask him out right if he is gay. It is a hard thing to do when you are young but he's gonna have to get used to being gutsy if he doesn't want to be afraid his whole life.
Or maybe it was his mom or dad's gay porn on his computer and he's NOT gay? You shouldn't snoop through people's things, also a good moral for you!
2006-08-03 16:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Understood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isn't... and chances are he isn't. A lot of guys around the age of 16 (14 - 15 too, and at least up to 18 year olds) get curious about homosexuality. Its nothing big, no big deal. He MIGHT look at gay porn, but chances are hes just curious and just checking it out. So probably no, he isn't.
2006-08-03 16:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i guess from your discription, it sounds like he's gay.
although, i think you went a little too far by checking the history on his computer, it seems like you care a bit too much. don't be freaked out, and don't worry about if he's gay or not. even if he is, he may not be ready to tell anyone. so don't pressure him, but if you want to seem supportive, don't use the word "gay" as a synonym for stupid, and definitely don't say "fag" or make fun of others for being/acting gay.
good luck, and chill out
2006-08-03 16:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds gay to me. Ask yourself how much this friendship means to you. If he's making you uncomfortable with the touching and chasing, tell him FIRMLY but politely that you don't like it. If his attraction to you is the basis for his friendship with you, then you are better off making other friends.
2006-08-03 16:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by shomechely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Billy,
Forget what you found on his computer, it's on MOST males at any age. Sexual preference doesn't matter. it's a visual thing. Don't rush to judge your buddy justh becasth of a sthpeashe impediment. In closing, close the door behind you. There's a draft in here.
:)
See you later,
Mom♥
2006-08-03 16:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by Raylene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think he is but that shouldnt stop you from liking somebody because of a choice that they chosed you never know why hes gay or like porn you never know what type of things he been through....thats why you should sit and talk to him as a friend
2006-08-03 16:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be. Just accept him as he is. But if he get's anymore touchy, let him know that you are most definately NOT gay.
2006-08-03 16:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by queenblafalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.But set guidlines if your not gay.Tell him to back off with the inappropriate touches or youll deck em.OR,if dont want be his friend,and he touches you again,deck em.You can get away with it.You can get him on sexaul harassment.OR,just avoid him.
2006-08-03 17:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by xero666x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend may possibly be gay. But he is your friend none the less. Accept his difference for what it is.
2006-08-03 16:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by numb4utoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible... then again he could just be "experimenting" for lack of a better term. if its bothering you, confront him. don't accuse him, just ask if there are any girls that he's into or past girlfriends. if he seems unsure how to answer, maybe ask about guys. it all depends on how close you can get yourself with him. be his friend!
2006-08-03 16:32:09 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋