I have a friend that I haven't seen, and ever since his father was being cruel to his mom and cheating on her, he started to blame on her even though he should of blame on his father. I'm trying to contact him but he hasn't been online, I want to call him but I don't want to disturb his family. How can I get him to stop listening to his dad and stop blaming on his mom?
2006-08-03 16:26:05 · 7 answers · asked by Eileen S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay to tell you the truth. You should try and get together with him and talk to him. See why he is blaming things on his mom. Also tell him what good qualities his mom has if you know some. Maybe try telling/showing him that it's not the mom doing the wrong thing but the dad is.
2006-08-03 16:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by always_love_4_you_454 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Your role as a friend is to offer support if he needs it. Who he blames for whatever is up to him. If he wants to get in touch with you I guess he can. For the moment though, this is not your problem.
2006-08-03 16:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes two for a marrige to work he needs to except the situation and move on dont take sides for that is what the father wants so he doesnt feel guilty for messing up
2006-08-03 16:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your good intenions are going to be awaste of time,sounds like he's just like his dad,words that I can't and won't use here.But,good luck,who knows your the one he might Listen to.
2006-08-03 16:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how to stop blaming his mom and start blaming hiself
2006-08-03 16:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should explain to him that that's a learned behavior & tell him how u feel.
2006-08-03 16:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go to church and get a job
2006-08-03 16:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by normdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋