my b-day party is in 2 days and i invited my bf to come and hes coming, and we are going to go swimming and be in our bathing suites, and im kinda scared, b/c i wear a bikini, and im kinda fat, ok im 5'7 and weigh 129 puonds, and im scared that if he sees me hes going to break up with me b/c of the way i look, advice??? please ..♥♥♥
2006-08-03 16:22:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
umm excuse me but ur not even fat and besides he should like you for who you are!! you shouldn't change yourself to make him happy! just be yourself and if he doesn't like it well then he ain't a true boyfriend!!!
2006-08-03 16:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by cork1904 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doing a quick calculation of your Body Mass Index (BMI) puts you at 20.3. That is a perfectly normal and healthy weight. Fat doesn't even begin until the BMI is 25, which would be the case if you weighed about 160 lbs. Relax!
OK, I know it's about perception, but if you are comparing yourself to super-thin (and possibly anorexic) women, then I can see why you might think that. Hopefully the objective data above, used by medical professionals no less, will help put things in perspective.
I wish you well with your relationship.
2006-08-03 16:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are completly average the average american girl is 5'7 and 130 lbs, if he breaks up with you because of the way you look he isn't good enough for you anyway, but if you are really worried about it then why don't you just ware a tankini, bikini's are cute, but insecurity isn't. tankini's are also cute, and your confidence in it will make you that much more attractive
AND YOU ARE NOT FAT
2006-08-04 05:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its his fought to judge you for the way you look he should look within that and know how of a beautiful person you are within? its his faught and his,problem if he break up with you because of the way you look and if he really likes you he should look past your looks.......really he should love that extra meat you have if he really likes you
2006-08-03 16:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5'7" and 129lbs is not fat you have nothing to worry about
2006-08-03 16:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by eaglerock60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't like you because you have a figure he is stupid and is not a true bf!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-04 03:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋