i am engaged for 2 years.when we wre living in europe together he promised me that when we come in Amerika he will helpme to do smth.of my life.he rented ahouse and bought furniture and he spend money from his budget.mei am not legal still here and i can not work.he told me to look for englisch lessons amd to go to school.when i look he sais he does not have money and that he can not now.i screamed at him and pushed him away with my hand and sais he is layer.when we go to supermarcket he spends 2oo$for food and spen 4000$for furniture.he had a plain before and a lot of money.i think he is playing with menow.he sais he will do everything for me and when i ask him he sais not now.he decides when he wants to do everything.today he beated me andmade me bruses and sais ok.because you are asking me i will pay.this is right.????now hw has?he holded me and squeseed me on my neck.please help me !
2006-08-03 16:17:17 · 10 answers · asked by mariana i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this guy is a control freak. I don't care if you rely on him financially and for your legal status in this country. Simple rule: if someone abuses you or gets physical with you, you leave. Period. Go get an education, get your degree and find a career of your own so you can support yourself. Be by yourself for a while and don't associate with this jerk anymore.
2006-08-03 16:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police and ask them to help you find a shelter for abused women. No one need know your not legal here. Do it when he is out, do it soon before he really hurts you.
2006-08-03 23:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by harley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and arrange a time to have a cop come escort you out,preferably when He's not there. File charges against him for battery. Or you could always just leave when you get the opportunity. Please be careful and please don't accept abuse. Not sure what your first language is,but try the links below.
2006-08-03 23:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by consigliere 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God gave men women as a company, a partner whom he SHOULD LOVE,ReSPECT and CARE as much as how he love,respect and care himself. Women are not created to be men's punching bag or the likes. A real man does not beat a woman, most importantly if he LOVES her. if you think he loves you because he provides or buys you things, think twice or thrice. If he'd done it once, he'd probably be doing it again to an even worse level. dump him, you worth someone better.Pray, that God will direct you to finally find someone who'll show you REAL LOVE and who can make you feel REAL LOVED.
2006-08-03 23:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by zyzzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. Just because you are here on a visa does not mean you can not work. Call a battered womens shelter and get out. They will help you. Please dont stay it will get worse. Love your self more than you love him.
2006-08-03 23:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police and file charges on him.doesn't matter that your not legal,he doesn't have the right to hit you. He probably thinks you won't do anything. Be Strong!
2006-08-03 23:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by Bebee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't read all that. Your typing is off. Don't be a victim; just get out.
2006-08-03 23:25:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police
2006-08-03 23:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM. There are shelters for battered women. GET HELP.
2006-08-03 23:38:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave he could end up killing you
2006-08-03 23:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by lavender14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋