The man said he loved me, his wife is not interested in sex, paying bills, we are friends, best friends, have more things in common than anyone I've ever met in my life, including my ex husband of 15 years. We met on the job, he pursued me, we kissed were never intimate. I just told him we have no future. He is married. I told hi we don't need to communicate at all, we've tried the just being good friends. he had a horrible fight with his spouse, and they are thinking about seperating, but I don't want to talk to him, because I don't want to get attached like I was....I have ended all contact, yet I still feel like one day we willbe together. I don't want to be the reason for the break up of his wife, they were having problems before I came along, and I didn't pursue him, at all, matter of fact I ran
2006-08-03 16:16:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmmmm... the question is?
if he wasnt faithful to his wife then chances are he wont be faithful to you ethier. he probably is ******* some prostitute right now. lets hope he dosnt get to many stds
2006-08-03 16:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice, don't tell him anything. Stay away, don't talk about it with him. You deserve better, however, you will not get better by continuing to think someday you will be together. Instead of thinking that someday you will be together, take the time to think about what it REALLY would be like if you do get together sometime. It will be no different for you than it is for his wife. you don't fix a marriage by seeking another person, if it can't be fixed you get a divorce.
2006-08-03 23:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by harley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard getting involved with a married man but you need to talk to him and tell him first he needs to decide to leave his wife that means divorce or they need to go to counseling and work things out whatever he does you need to stay out of it and let them decide what to do. After a couple of months after the divorce maybe you can work things out but don't put yourself in the position it is your fault he left her because that will hang over your head the rest of your LIFE.
2006-08-03 23:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by Carol W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this situation i think that the ends justify the means, however if he was so willing to cheat on his wife with you odds are he is going to cheat on you with someone else, maybe even with his wife, you did the right thing, run away from your problems, ignore them and maybe they will go away, or maybe they will start buring a hole in you that you can't stop. im sorry this has happend to you it really sucks but just listen to your heart because no matter what your head is saying its not giong to make it stop.
2006-08-03 23:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by n4il_p0lish2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋