how do you have good lesbian sex? do you have any instructions for me, because that would help a whole lot!!?

Question

not to sound stupid, but i'm kinda running out of things to try on my partner and positions.

Answer 1

I don't really feel like giving a step by step, but the most important thing is to be interested in each other, enthusiastic, and honest. Most everything else follows from there.

Joann Loulan's "Lesbian Sex" has *all* kinds of ideas!

And then there's this site.

Answer 2

I really believe I could get some serious thumbs down for this, but never mind... I believe that some of the things in the Bible, especially the Old Testimony, should not be interpreted as guidelines for judging right and wrong - that could be the case with gay/lesbian people. I think that, in that time, when the Jews just started making a stable state, there was a serious problem with population growth and, since their religion was a foundation of their community life, several laws were made in an attempt to deal with the problem. It is obvious that gay couples can't have children (remember that then there was no adoption), and if they have encouraged those kind of relationships, it might have turned out even dangerous. Similar to this is another proposition from the OT, concerning that a woman is unclean during her monthly period, and some time after it. This means, among other things, that her husband must not have sexual intercourse with her during that time. It does not surprise that it is the time when she is most certainly unable to conceive. There are other, hygienic, reasons for this, but the one I stated is also very likely. Like I've said, there are plenty of laws with a similar purpose. What I'm trying to say is that the Book, and especially the Old Testimony, is not always up-to-date and definitely when it comes down to your friends, you should remember what Christ himself taught trough the Gosspels, for that is what matters the most. He did say that he has come to change the old ways...

Answer 3

This Site Might Help You.

RE:
how do you have good lesbian sex? do you have any instructions for me, because that would help a whole lot!!?
not to sound stupid, but i'm kinda running out of things to try on my partner and positions.

Answer 4

Just do what feels right. Take your time and explore her body. Use a feather light touch on her skin and run your fingers slowly all over her but NOT touching the "good" parts. It will drive her crazy in a good way. Try using an ice cube on her nipples and up her inner thigh and along her outer lips.

There's a movie I love too that will give you a million ideas - it's not a porno, don't worry. It's called "Better Than Chocolate." Check it out.

Answer 5

There is a book that most banes and nobles, or Borders books carry(if you cant find it they can order it) It is called the Ultimate Guide to Lesbian Sex.... It is great, it helped my partner and I out.
But I dont know how you feel, but I give directions... more, less, harder, softer, here, there, etc. we have better sex when we communicate.. It bothers some people, but I am all for it! LUCK!

Answer 6

Follow the same basic rule that applies to everyone, male female, str8 or ghey. COMMUNICATE!! Open your mouth and tell her what you like and ask her what she likes, then talk about things you want to try, cause you won't know if you like it until you try it.

I always told people I was try-sexual, cause I'll try anything once, and if I like it, I'll try it again

Answer 7

If you feel like you're out of ideas, you're totally on the wrong path. Pay attention to what your girl likes. If you're totally out of touch with her, maybe you should find someone else.

Answer 8

make her put her knees up then slide in sideways and lick her from side to side.

Answer 9

First, open a can of tuna.................