I went out on Friday night by myself and it made my boyfriend upset. He has trust issues w/ me and got more upset when he tried to call me and I ignored his calls. He called me several times and it was becoming annoying! So he called my best girlfriend and got on a 3 way conversation w/ her and her boyfriend. Part of this conversation between the 3 people somehow got recorded and sent to my voicemail. My boyfriend believes this was done intentionally to hurt both me and him. But my girlfriend and I have been good friends for almost 10 yrs and I know she would never do anything to hurt either of us and she has been nothing but supportive of my relationship. When I want out, she says stay and work it out. So why would she or her man intentionally do something like that? Could it have been an accident? I wonder if this has happened to anyone else. Can anyone answer this mystery?
2006-08-03 16:05:46 · 9 answers · asked by Haleigh's Mommy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
"Accidentally saved to voice mail?" I doubt it. Sounds like your friend was trying to stir the pot a little bit. It's never happened to me, but I have had friends try to sabotage relationships for one reason or another. Perhaps your friend thinks this guy is wrong for you and was just trying to show you in a non-confrontational (albeit sneaky) way. Take a step back and try to objectively evaluate both relationships.
2006-08-03 16:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by shomechely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ten years or twenty doesn't mean anything. Girls are back stabbers they love to be in the middle of other peoples relationships. But it also depends on what was said why would it cause you and your man problems? Did they talk bad about you or say something that you should not have heard. Seems like to me I would not trust any of them. Your friend should have never talked to him in the first place.
2006-08-03 16:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your boyfriend prolly did it. He was mad at you so he wanted to upset you by showing you how your friend was talking with him. I don't understand why your good friend was having a three way conversation in the first place. It could have been her that did it. I don't think it was an accident, someone did it on purpose.
2006-08-03 16:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mystery is, if you know he has a trust problem, why in the world would you ignore his calls to begin with? Keep torturing him..that is sure to make things better.
2006-08-03 16:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no accident, but rather good intentions, it brings a serious problem to the surface. talk things out with your bf. he wouldn't make a scene if he didn't care. he would just ignore you. So you know he likes you. mend things up and let it go.
2006-08-03 16:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mikey B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO !!!!!! it was recorded and then sent to your voice mail !!!! ooppss i recorded the conversation....ooppss i dialed your number and sent it to your voice mail. what was said that could hurt the two of you anyway....he should be sayin personal stuff to friends.
2006-08-03 16:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by ginnharvill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could have been a mistake. Question is why does he not trust you to begin with
2006-08-03 16:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by jennwaffle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think maybe secretly ur friends r jelous that u have someone like that or maybe they think u can do better u should ask them
2006-08-03 16:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tis cannot b an accident, its obviously planned. did u offend her?
2006-08-03 16:10:21 · answer #9 · answered by he 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋