Ok I never had a boyfried. And i'm going into the 9th grade.And I've been asked out, but never said yes cause they only wanted me for a prize. And I'm pretty in person but they just use me all the time. Most of my guy friends have a crush on me and I can tell they don't have the guts to ask me. Is there something wrong with me?
2006-08-03 15:44:47 · 30 answers · asked by Beaute' 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no, just be patient and the right guy will come
2006-08-03 15:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with you - in time you will realize that the girls who are with boys now will be doing things they will regret for the rest of their lives, some will get AIDS and die, others will get pregnant, some will be humiliated and stay will a guy they dont even like just because they are so freaked out at the idea of being alone, some will make bad choices based on being despirate to have a guy.
High School relationships seldom last into adult hood - one day the right person will be there for you...
I didnt have a boy friend in school however I am now 40yrs and married the perfect man for me ( we were both punks in school but never met because we were many miles away) anyhow totally happy and we own a farm now which is what we both always wanted ... no rushing or you will make bad mistakes
2006-08-03 22:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by CF_ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that. You are not missing anything honey. My daughter has to wait until she is 16 although she was sneaky last year and had a boyfriend. When I was a teen, guys were intimidated by me... a lot of them liked me but only a few would approach me. There is nothing wrong with you. Just be yourself and smile. Interesting things will come your way soon enough.
Peace
2006-08-03 22:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are mature enough too know that the guys you have come across so far is not worth your time if all they want you for is a trophy. You will in the future meet just the right guy that wants to spend time with you not just have you hanging on his arm to make him look good. Don't rush it , He will come around when you least expect him...
2006-08-03 22:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by redneckwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO my god. Your what like 15, you don't even know yourself yet. Get to know yourself a boy you want to date will come along when he comes along. I didn't start dating until I was 17 and I'm happy about that because it made me more mature and I knew who I was and what I want in life. It's ok to be single. You don't have to be attached to some boy and it's actually better to not be. Wait till 11th grade before you start really freaking out about this. Good luck in all that you do.
2006-08-03 22:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by Bast 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I only had 1 boyfriend while i was in high shool You should just get friends and do good in school. That is all that really matters. And besides. While I had a boyfriend it was so stressful. I had to think on some days. Does he really love me? Is he cheating on me? and on somedays he asked if I wanted to have sex and I said no. So then we broke up because I wouldn't give it up.
2006-08-03 22:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing is wrong with you. I didnt have my first 'real' boyfirend until I was 15 and in the 10th grade. The right guy for you will come around when he does! Just be yourself and eventually the boys will see that they are missing out and you will have more guys then you imagined.
2006-08-03 22:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by maddieb_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all and don't you give your "prize" to ANYONE until you find "Mr. Right". Boys will respect you more for not giving away your "prize" and even though it doesn't seem like it now you need respect more than you need a boyfriend. Demand respect and don't give yourself a bad name. Keep your pants on and you will be admired cause not many girls your age can control themselves anymore.
2006-08-03 22:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking someone to be your boyfriend is middle school. You just have a boy friend or gf in high school. There is no officlal asking out usually.
Don't worry about not being in a relationship lots of people aren't.
2006-08-03 22:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by cancerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They dont have guts?
Where is your guts?
They are starting them out with bad attitudes early now arent they..
You are all too young anyway. When you get older it would be good for you to lose the expectation that a guy has to come after you while you criticize guys.
2006-08-03 22:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find the right guy when it is time. I met my (now husband of over 10 years) when I was in college. He was not the first person I ever "went out" with, but he is the first one I ever seriously dated. He is also the first one I ever had sex with. I am glad I waited. I think you will be too.
2006-08-03 22:58:11 · answer #11 · answered by Cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋