my wife has a guy is chats with all the time?

Question

well my wife chats with this guy all the time she would never leave me iam not worry about that. but i am starting to get mad about it and asked her to stop. she doesnt hide it while chatting he will say hi to me. but iam not understanding it she says he is just a friend he lives like 1000 miles away and she is a great wife the BEST but she told me to get a girl to chat with and i would understand wow what to do

Answer 1

Clearly, she has some needs that are not being fulfilled inside the marriage. You two need to see a marriage/relationship counselor ASAP to work things out.

Answer 2

Maybe you should ask yourself why she can chat with him so easily and not you. It sounds like your communication has broken down some. Maybe like when she wants to tell you about her day you don't wanna hear about it or how shes feeling ect. Shes simply seeking out online the communication she isn't getting at home. Maybe as the years have passed you've forgot how to be a Good friend to your wife While gettin caught up with paying bills, work, kids ect. It's a pretty easy fix. Next time your wifes chattin offer her Yourself. I don't mean by saying HEY Stop talkin to him and come here and talk with me. Do it more sudily. Make her more interested in you and you'll find she'll spend more time with you and less on line. Good Luck.

Answer 3

I don't see what the big deal is really. I have lady friends I talk to on the net and we do live long distances apart. I would never go to meet any of them........I just sometimes need advice about things I can tell no one else. It is sometimes better to get advice from folks you have never met and just to connect with people who probably wouldn't speak to you on the street. Making friends on the Internet is easier than in person and you can make lasting friends with folks who may never see your face. You said you knew you had nothing to worry about, so, why stop her from chatting with someone 1,000 miles away. If she was gonna cheat on you it would be most likely be someone in the town where you live. I am not trying to be rude........I am just trying to help calm some of your fears. Good luck and I hope this helps !

Answer 4

I went thru this with my hubby this woman was always calling him but she did it when I wasn't around like she was hiding it. It was his bf's wife and she would take him lunch and stuff claiming she was stopping in to talk to her hubby even though he wasn't even there, so one night i told him it was either her or me, she was trying to ruin my marriage cause her hubby treated her like dodo and she was jealous of me come to find out. He ask her to quit calling and we even had to go as far as to change our cell phone number. I guess what I am saying is that maybe there is something shes missing and won't tell you. I think the only person she should be talking to like that is you it's ok to have friends but not in that way to me. I think you really need to have a heart to heart with her tell her your uncomfortable. my hubby didn't realize how i felt until i ended up blowing up at him one night, and then we had to almost get a restraining order to keep her away she was after him, which was sad cause she ruined her hubbies and my hubbies friendship. Maybe the guy is calling ehr and persuing her more than you know.

Answer 5

Ah, don't get your panties in a bunch, bucko. People make friends on the internet all the time. Even learn a lot from them. Stop worrying about it. Geez.

Answer 6

stick with the advice of marriage councelor . It could be some of her needs are not being met or it could be something more serious. Only one way to find out! best of luck to you

Answer 7

Tell her it is not right and you want her to stop it or you will divorce her.
What she is doing is cheating. Your wife should be talking to you not to someone else....period.

Answer 8

Find someone to talk to urself...heck I can't blame you at all....