and will marry in 6 months.i used to do mastarbation alot and i am worry if it affects sexual ability after marriage .SERIEOUS ANSWERS PLEASE
2006-08-03 15:10:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
It's great that you are willing to wait (rare in today's society). Pleasuring yourself does not make sex with your partner worse; in fact, it can have its benefits if you learn to hold back your orgasm longer, you will bring more pleasure to your wife and she will love you for it! There's nothing better for a guys ego than being hailed as a stud in bed because you waited for her to orgasm too! Good luck with your marriage!
2006-08-03 17:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by TOMMYBOY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your lovely that you have waited for marriage. There is nothing wrong with masturbating, most humans do it, although girls are a little more reserved about admitting it. The only downside might be that you are so used to your own hand and sensation that a women will not be able to give you the same pleasure. That is unlikely though if you are a virgin, Im sure on your wedding night you will be so excited by the sight of your wife you wil have no problems making love to her. Just remember she is flesh and blood and probably a virgin, not the porn star of your fantasies, so take it slow and gentle and Im sure you will both be fine
2006-08-04 08:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry once you are married your desire for masturbation will be replaced with the desire for your spouse. Be careful though if you continue to "please" yourself too much your penis can become irritated and sore and that would interfere with your marital sex life. Also it can cause a low sperm count, so if children are in the future remember that. I'm not saying you will never want to master bate again, just not as your main sexual outlet...more like a last alternative....Congratulations on the wedding and best luck.
2006-08-04 10:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, whatever you fantasize about when you masterbate to will ruin it with your wife... You will picture whatever you masterbate to and compare it to what your wife doesn't have leading to more fantasies and less sex with your ready and willing wife. You'll get bored with her at some point and probably go back to masterbation.
2006-08-03 22:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by ZIAGACITY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f you haven't got hair on your hand and haven't gone, blind stop now.
2006-08-04 01:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by jewingengleman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋