what do you do with a boyfriend who.... complains too much, always has something negative to say, never calls me by my real name, and is insensitive. He is to worked up on little petty things, and not thinking about the big picture. He is immature, and unreliable? i don't want to hurt him or his family, but i have tried everything i know....HELP PLEASE!!!
btw...he's in the middle in my pic
2006-08-03 14:44:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you dump him and find a real man
2006-08-03 14:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you insane???? Dump his ***.
Look, he needs a serious attitude adjustment. Are you willing and ready to put in that type of commitment? You can't possibly break up with someone without hurting them, unless they want out also. You have no options... either bite the bullet and try to fix something seriously broken, or end it quickly... like pulling off a bandaid. Just make sure he knows the honest reason you're leaving. Maybe, if he cares enough, he'll take the steps to becoming a better person. Good luck to you.
2006-08-03 21:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by chris m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm.....hello???? If he's your boyfriend and already does nothing but complain, always talks negative, and is insensitive, would you really want him as a husband? Better think about this. Might be time to break off the realtionship......
2006-08-03 21:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dan Savage is a talented relationship advice columnist, and he has an acronym for situations like this: DTMFA. It stands for Dump The Mother-F'er Already. There's so much wrong with him that there couldn't possibly be much worthwhile. Don't subject yourself to this loser for another minute.
2006-08-03 21:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask you if that is the kind of relationship you want to be in? If not, then get out. I sounds as if it is not healthy at all. I would hope that you would want more for yourself. Don't limit yourself.
When a man acts like that....there is usually a reason why.
2006-08-03 21:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sugar life is to short to waste time worrying over people that seem to never grow up. Guys that act like that will never change... move on and get with a real man that knows how to treat a lady. (-;
2006-08-03 21:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by passionate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him now that you will no longer be reacting to his negativity. Don't take it personally and tune him out unless he can find a healthy way of communicating with you. Suggest counseling, and let him know that you like to hear him say your name. If he is not willing to consider your requests, then you are best to move on.
2006-08-03 21:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to let him go
just pack up and go tell him why and that you hope he can work out the issues
but do not stay with someone you are unhappy with because you do not want to hurt them
you end up hurting yourself more in the end
2006-08-03 21:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by someone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you give the relationship a break for awhile. This does get worse when you get married unless he can work through it!!!
2006-08-03 21:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B.T.W. get to hell out of that relationship,plain and simple came to u wrapped in plain brown paper
2006-08-03 21:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by matt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋