wat do i do my if my mom is freakin making me mad every day bye telling me wat cloths to wear and all that plz

Question

my mom comes home everyday and she makes me mad as anything and i be so very nice to my mom and she is just so mean and everytime i try to be nice shes like so mean and even wen i try talkin to her she hits me wit pillows and she makes fun of me and callz me ugly and all that plz some plz help me :-(

Answer 1

you should just say it in a nice way so it doesn't hurt her feeling but you tell her whats on your mind tell her that u appreseat what she has done and u think your grown up and u can pick out your clothes


if your mom gets mad and hits you with pillows maybe she is stressed from work and maybe you should just be at a hi bye relationship just try it 4 1 day because I'm not telling you 2 not talk to your mom but maybe she needs some time 2 think about things

and doesn't matter shape,size,color you are beautiful no matter what and if your mom cant see that something is wrong maybe you guys should talk !!!!!!! i hope things get better:)

Answer 2

Sounds like mom is reacting to something and perhaps not you, you just happen to be catching the fall out. You said when she comes home, from work I guess. Both my sons moved out because they said they were grown and ready. Now that they both have families and have had to be grown, they often tell me they wish they could go back and just keep their room clean. Don't rush being grown, it's harder than you know.
She should not call you ugly or make fun of you and I will not justify that. Try this, don't bother her at all when she first gets home. Be busy doing something productive, homework, housework, or something like that. Say with a smile, "Hi mom, real busy, have to get this done. Hope you had a good day. I'll try to finish up and maybe we can tell each other about our day." Give her that little bit of settle down time and you may be the one who benefits.
I was a single working mom and coming home to a mess, one teenager on the phone and one playing the video game, no homework started, and problems immediately as I walked in the door, was rough after 8 - 10 hours of work.

Answer 3

Well, for one thing, you seem probably pretty young considering you spelled "by" as "bye" and "clothes" as "cloths", so to me, I don't really think there's much of a problem as your mom telling you what to wear.

But the fact that she hits you with pillows and making fun of you, she may be teasing you NOT trying to be mean, but she might be overdoing it in the way that you THINK she's being mean to you, but she isn't.

However, if you don't think she's really teasing you and IS being mean to you, my advice to you is to tell an adult. Your dad, your aunt, uncle, your teacher, your school counselor or something. No one here can really help you very much course we aren't there to stop the "physical" or "verbal" abuse you're getting from your mom.

UNLESS your mom starts really hitting you, like punching you or beating you up, and calling you names with vulgarity in it, I don't think she's really hurting you except your self confidence. But don't worry, I'm sure even though she does all that, she really loves you.

And since talking to her face to face seems to you ending up "getting hurt", may be you can write a letter to her, or talk to her on the phone. Do it in a way that she can't hurt you much. And the fact that she calls you ugly or whatever, just close one eye to it. She doesn't really mean it. Cos if she does, she's calling herself ugly too, since half of your genes belong to her.
But that's a different story....

Answer 4

If you do not provoke your mom daily and If you are able to stand in front of a mirror and think what you are wearing is ok and not hoochi or ofensive on the street..then ok....but the ugly comments are not acceptable......your mom needs help...speak to a school conselor or a teacher to get you help at school for an abusive mom.......

Answer 5

Umm, how old are you?..Im guessing like 10-12 by your spelling. Anyhow Im sure your mom knows what is appropriate enough clothes to wear, so you should listen to her. Your Just a kid anyway.

Answer 6

whoa! how old r u! well ne way um im more concerned bout the hittin part! does she just hit u wit pillows! well mommas i think shes gettin out of hand wit the hittin & callin u ugly! if it gets 2 out of hand u rilly need 2 step up, dont b afraid, & tell somebody!~

Answer 7

whoa that's harsh first u need to tell her something that u really feel if i were u i would just tell her to stop and say that Ur making my confidence fall and that wen she says Ur ugly just ignore her and talk back

Answer 8

lol is ur mom 12

Answer 9

thats "emotional abuse" if its as bad as u say it is