What do I do? should I just poke holes in the condom?
2006-08-03 14:30:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeh just a few little holes or if she becomes suspicious and starts open the packets herself, just hammer real hard so they break durring intercorse
2006-08-03 14:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by Aussieblonde -bundy'd 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She wants kids, she knew that what was expected of her when she married. She needs you to vbe there foor her. I know the condoms thing was a joke, so I will not comment on that . You should take her away for a weekend and plan to have a love fest and she will get pregnant. Unless there is a medical reason she will give you what she wants you just cant force her that is what is turningher off
2006-08-04 19:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is she not ready maybe she just is not ready for that commitment or is she scared of the whole process
talk through why she is not ready and be patient
deal with each issue
help her do the things she wants to do or see help her prepare for this
but also ask her for a time frame say okay I will give you 2 years then we have a family marriage is compromise make her see you will giver her time but in exchange she can tell you a time in the not to far off future
but forcing her or tricking her is not fair and you do not want to be that kind of husband
2006-08-03 21:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by someone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poke holes in a condom = she might get an abortion without your knowledge.
COMMUNICSATE your wishes to your wife.
2006-08-05 04:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get her really drunk and do what needs to be done , or you could try a turkey baster .
Try to have an orgasm -- Some suggest that using a vibrator for clitoral stimulation produces a bigger, more powerful orgasm. Use whatever method works best for you (unless it requires lots of water!). The orgasm helps the cervix dip into the vaginal pool and suck up sperm -- it helps get more sperm up there, and may speed sperm travel. Avoid penetration (as in intercourse or with vibrator). This falls in the can't hurt, might help category.
2006-08-03 21:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by heyboo134@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to give you a date/time when you can look forward to having kids. If she can't, you need to consider your marriage very seriously. If she doesn't want kids, and you do, you may have to either give up your dreams of a family, or give up her.
2006-08-04 17:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by Just Ducky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how horrible!!!!!!!! That isn't even something to joke about. It is her life to and you can't force anything upon someone that is so life changing. You need to be a better husband and just talk to her about it or give her time.
2006-08-03 21:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until she is ready. sorry to poke holes in your idea...
2006-08-03 21:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush it. Your children may not have a mother one day if you do.
It is wiser to go to God about it and see what he can do.
2006-08-03 21:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by Michael JENKINS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm . . . I doubt "Betsy the Blow Up Doll" is equipped for baby making . . . .
2006-08-04 11:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋