I work for my uncle's wife as her assistant/ processor for a mortgage company. I've closed about 10 deals in the past 3 weeks and she still hasn't paid me. What is a polite way of asking or hinting without leading to a confrontation or fight?
2006-08-03 14:18:32 · 7 answers · asked by just a girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just say hey I was wondering when I was going to be paid for the work I have done
2006-08-03 14:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say hey Aunt _____ I have closed 10 in the last 3 weeks and I was wondering when I was going to get paid, I have some unexpected bills that have come up and could really use that money.. And if that don't work take her to small claims court.
2006-08-03 21:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by brat71825 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Situations like this are always hard to deal with...(for me anyway) because I don't like to ask people for anything even if they owe me. For starters your Uncle's wife knows DAMN WELL!!! she owes you money so you shouldn't have to ask. I know how you feel, because I have been There. The only thing I know to do is Not to deal with it!! I would no longer work there and just decide not to deal with her. People especially family can be sooo dirty!! Sometimes you just have to take a lose and learn from this experience. Don't sweat it she only "Thinks" she's getting over!! I mean you can ask her, like she doesn't already know, but either she is going to pay you or she's not!!. Just consider this as a store bought lesson!!
2006-08-03 21:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 b as honest as u can. tell her u have bills 2 pay just like she does, and u need ur money and if she doesnt pay u, stop bing nice about it, as evidently she doest give a flying f@@@and how do u know shes taking credit 4 what u have done? does she hve a boss? mayb they dont know u did all the work and she takes the pats on the back? its not ur uncle, its his wife, u r not related 2 her by blood, speak up girl, stand up 4 urself. good luck kiddo, hope u get ur money And RECOGNITION for hard work.
2006-08-03 21:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by big foot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her in a nice way to pony up the dough!! And if she doesn`t then lock her out of her computer with a password that you only know. When she pays you then give her the password!! I had employer do this to me and I walked in one day and took one of the machines that we used that was aorund $30,000 dollars. He came by my house and asked me what I did with it and I said I had know idea where it was but maybe it would appear if he gave me my money. He told me he was going to call the cops and I said go ahead I just hope your wife doesn`t find out that your messing around on her with your coworker. I got my money the next morning!!!
2006-08-03 21:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try just popping up and say...hey aunt so and so you forgot to pay me...in a nice neicely way...let her off the hook by saying something like...i guess you just got busy or just overlooked it and there shouldn't be a confrontation...stay cool...if that don't work go on strike or take it to court
2006-08-03 21:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by Enigma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel tel her tat u need 2 buy sumtin important nd u need money like da money tat u shud get 4 closing those deals if she says "wat money?" then tel her "da money tat i deserve 4 working" then tel her tat ur not workin 4 free.
2006-08-03 21:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by Bem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋