my wife does not think by her self, she listens to other and get into fight with me, How do you make here righ

Question

she fights bad and I have a ten year old daughter. I think her sister is behind

Answer 1

what woman does think by herself????????????????????????????

Answer 2

First by your wife letting everyone get in her life is unexceptional in a relationship. I don't know if she is aware of what her so called sisters advice is doing to yalls relationship. If yall have a ten year old daughter this could have a huge effect on her because as she continues to grow the argueing that goes on in front of her. She will begin to think she is the reason & later will lead her into a path of sucide,drugs etc... I am proof of that fact.However I no longer do this and this was 19 years ago. However you need to ask yourself whats more important ? Your probably saying your marraige and your daughter. But do you want happiness for your daughter or unhappiness. Set limits ask your wife not to see her sis as much. However some people need these issues pointed out because he/shewhichever the case maybe. May not be aware of what this is doing. If she loves you and your daughter enough.She will make the sacrafice . However if yall all meant to be, Things will work out for the best.

Answer 3

First of all let me say to the MAN that said " What woman thinks by herself" There are plenty of strong minded women out here in the world, that do think by themselves. I would have to say if you really want to be with this woman, and she is an important person in your life, then talk about it.. Most women will listen if your compassinate with your conversation. If you feel that this is taking over your realtionship than theres probably a reason for that, cut your ties and move forward with your daughter (no man or woman is worth more than your child)
P.S If you think her sister is behind it more than likely she is.. When you in a relationship its a circle of two people once people get in that circle it is a mess and basically over from that point.

It only takes two people to create a relationship and a million to make it end! (Key Point, dont let anyone in your circle)

Answer 4

You need to sit down with your wife and bring this to her attention. Let her know that she needs to think for herself and not let others like her family influence the way she thinks and acts. Bring up specific instances where this has come into play.
Let her know you don't want to fight and you just want to work things out together. She needs to know that in a marriage three is a crowd, so it should just be you and her working things out - not her sister or mother too.

Answer 5

You might, in a loving way, tell her that you want her to talk to you. Make the time for this to happen..Take her some place nice for dinner, tell her that you love her, and you don't understand the reason she feels the need to take her problems to anyone else. Now, you must be available for her to talk to on a regular basis. If she enters the room while you are watching TV, cut the sound down and listen to what she is saying to you.
Don't argue with her. It takes two to argue...

Answer 6

Your wife need to grow up. Stand firm, when she is upset just walk out and let her rant. She is just being immature or do not have any respect on herself. It is too bad that your ten year old have to listen to her immaturity.

She may have a low self esteem or just jealous.

Answer 7

Tell her she needs to grow a backbone and form her own opinions, that you married her, not her family and friends and if she cannot learn to control her anger and actions for the benefit of your child, then you will seek a lawyer for divorce. Sometimes you need to let someone know what they have and what they have to lose, before they realize they need to change. Get her into anger management classes and tell her to become a woman for herself and stop living in someone elses shadow of what they think is right for her.

Answer 8

If she cannot think on her own and has to listen to other people's advice or opinions to gain her own opinions, then she's very weak and obviously let's this get in the way of your marriage. I would seek marriage counseling if you want this relationship to last and if you want your daughter in a healthy environment.

Answer 9

Since your wife likes to talk how about going to professional marriage counseling and she can get some on her own too.

Answer 10

Wives who listen to others' pot stirring are immature and brainless. unless you can convince you wife not to listen to her sister too much, you will continue having such problems. With such wives you need to have a certain control over her.

Answer 11

then you need to set her down and get to the bottom of her problem it's not healthy for your daughter to be around that type of crap and if her sister is putting her up to it i would have a talk with her as will.