Ok, I have a bestfriend, but she is super annoying! And she eats ALOT. She came over my house and she ate most of our food. She doesn't shower that much and she is very messy and my family is kinda neat. She also lies alot so that she can be right but what says is not even realistic. She's just so annoying but she is a really good freind though. How do you deal with people like that?
2006-08-03 13:56:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try to make the best of it, haha. Or just talk to her about it. Not about the smelling bad part though... just that it seems like sometimes her lying can get in the way of things... and you feel bad because she's doing it?
2006-08-03 14:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by babyloveee92 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If she is indeed a good friend.. tell her in a way that wouldnt bust her bubble about what is annoying to you. I think I could deal with the food eating.. she must be hungry. As far as the stinky part.. well. thats touchy.. I guess give her some of "your" favorite body wash and have her to try it to see if she likes it. Then when she tries it.. make a big deal about how good it smells on her. Now the lying part is something I could not deal with. That I am not sure how to advise you on that. I have some friends like that also and it makes me not want to be around then due to the fact.. I never know what they are saying to be the truth or another lie. Nine times out of ten it is a lie. So. I am sorry. Cant help you there. Good Luck.
2006-08-03 21:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUNDS LIKE YOUR ALREADY OVER HER...if she cant even tell YOU the truth then shes gotta go. I am very tolerant of annoying people but there has to be a line...
On the other hand, if you are determined to stay her friend I will tell you what i know...
I just saw on The Early Show, a segment about chatterboxes and liars; they both stem from low self esteem, and now that i think about it so does binge eating. So maybe all she needs is an ego boost.
But if you want her to stop exaggerating and lying about things YOU HAVE GOT TO CALL HER ON IT. I learned this from personal experience...just simply say "I don't believe that for a second!"
2006-08-03 21:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how she could be such a good friend to you when you hold all those judgments of her. Maybe you should examine what it is that you like about her before you continue to tear her down while claiming to care about her. I would say to either be for her or leave her alone. From the list of problems you mentioned I am sure she does not need anyone else to put her down. Some people are just not compatible friends. You two may be in that category. How would you feel if someone claiming to be a good friend tore you down like you did your friend?
2006-08-03 21:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by norsktjej1964 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's really your friend, you should say something to her. Tell her that she can't just come over to your house and mess things up and eat all your food. Don't say that she's a liar, but just hint that you value your friendship and that for it to work out, you both need to be completely honest with each other and other people. Just letting her get away with this stuff is just going to make your annoyance and irritation build up and then one day it will all explode and you'll probably have a big fight.
2006-08-03 21:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my good friends is like that as well. Just the fact that I've known him for so many years makes it easier because I understand why he does the things he does. You just need to let them win in most arguments because they're the kind of person that will never listen and never admit they're wrong. Just go over their house instead of letting them come over yours.
2006-08-03 21:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
juss b honest tell straight tell er dat u really like er alot BUT there some tings she needs 2 change if she want 2 keep on been friends maybe nobody ever talk 2 er like that it might make er tink about how she behave 2wards u and yr fam good luck girl
2006-08-03 21:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by lloydpaul2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loan her 20-30 dollars......most of the time some of those friends tend to not come around when they owe you. I loaned a so-called friend $20.00 one time and it has been a very long time since I've seen him.....so I figure it was worth loosing the $20.00 for him not to show up again.
2006-08-03 21:04:11 · answer #8 · answered by SouthernLiberty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every body has bad faults and annoying habbits but if she is a good a friend as you say then respect her feelings sit her down and have a chat with her you may find that there are a few things about you that may annoy her sometimes.
2006-08-03 21:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by vicky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is it about her that makes you want to consider her a friend? Why do you consider her a really good friend? You don't mention why, just the things you don't like about her.
You just have to decide if she is a good enough friend that you can put up with her drawbacks. It's up to you.l
2006-08-03 21:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by jobiwan115 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋