2006-08-03 13:43:46 · 5 answers · asked by Thung thung 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is a 2-way streets. Both of them have 2 give & take, 2 accepts or 2 sacrifies ( of course its in the harmless & hurtless ways). I believe, b4 tying the knots, both have 2 make a conclusion what's their responsibilities & they have 2 hold 2 it. To me, I'll be the one in & he's the one out. I'll make the house not just a home but some sort like a relaxing kingdom 2 him! Things go on pretty smooth even when our little angels arrived! I still can handle it giving him good services from the head 2 the toe! Try not 2 break the laws that both posted 2 each other. Only then u can see happy & fortunate marriages.
2006-08-03 14:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by cancerlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
POSTING would mean they were set for sure. Marriage is about give and take. Yes, there should be limits, but you can't set out in a marriage EXPECTING things to be perfect. Things are going to change, and things are going to go "wrong". It's all about how you CHOOSE to react and handle the situation! Best of luck!!!
2006-08-03 14:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Country Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I got married I was given a survey that was to be taken by me and my future husband. It was a responsibility checklist. For the first part you had to pick what you thought your partner should be responsible for and the next column would be what you thought you should be responsible for. Your partner was expected to fill out the same form. It was really cool and really helped to put things in perspective when you got together as a couple and looked at what you thought you both should be involved in. It asked questions from cooking, cleaning, career, child-rearing, to sex. Everything was asked. Expectations are really important in a relationship, especially when one of the partner feels the other is not keeping up with their share of the responsibilities. I would suggest you search online for a similar survey. Or ask your priest, pastor, counselor, etc.
2006-08-03 13:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by nt2shy74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nt2shy74 has the right idea!
Go with that one!!!
Hammer it out in writing, verbally and TOGETHER!!!
Don't ever expect him to read your mind nor should you his,
Communication is key to a lasting relationship!!!
Good Luck!
2006-08-03 14:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by susieque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by POST their resposilities.
2006-08-03 13:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by biged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋