Ok i have this problem, well not really, but im talkin to this guy, and i like him alot and he likes me alot but we arent really official yet. I dont get to see him as much as i would like but when i do, things dont always go like i want. I kinda have a problem bein shy and quiet jus sometimes, and jus let time go by. My question is. can anyone help me to open up more to this person?
2006-08-03 13:21:15 · 4 answers · asked by MzChamillinator 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
From a guys point of view...yes i can! First you have to get to know him and flirt with questions for a few days. that will break in his personality...so you can learn from that how he is. like shy, humorus, nice, and outgoing. Once you do that he will open up a little. then you should start to break the ice with a question like,"Wanna go to get something to eat?" , Don't worry if he says no, for you will only have to go back to the first step and do the same. When he opens up to you, and you have been talking more and going to get something to eat, for a while, (You have to build up a strong friendship for it to work out) keep doing so but talking to him about yourself and asking about him and flirting a lot! After doing that for a few days, ASK him out. trust me. it worked for me getting me a hot girl + sweet+ nice+ funny. We like each other a lot now. There you go you got him!
2006-08-03 13:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by yaystevie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are shy!!!...sometimes shy people get mistaken for being "snobby" or disinterested. If you like him, call him, tell him that you would like to hang out. I know it is hard, but he might get away, or the next time he calls, tell him you are glad to hear from him.
2006-08-03 13:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by shoppingcartgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im shy too, and i know how you feel. You should try tslking to him and letting him know that your shy and tell him that you like him a lot and tell him how you feel.
good luck!
2006-08-03 13:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to slow your thoughts down and then consider speaking with this guy.
2006-08-03 13:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋