I don't want to hurt her feelings, and it's just not the same I've try to tell her but I notice that she feels good about herself and I don't want to u know be cold and straight out tell her.
2006-08-03 13:18:07 · 42 answers · asked by Shadow 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
DON'T SAY ANYTHING. JUST TAKE HER SHOPPING!
2006-08-03 13:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her shopping and have her try on some clothes that you would like to see her in. Make sure you buy an outfit after she's tried some stuff on, then take her to dinner and tell her how gorgeous she looks and how those clothes are attractive on her, that her figure flows better or something..... Don't criticize what she does wear, just tell her that's fine, but this is what YOU like the best. Then if she agrees, she'll want to dress more that way and she'll never really have to know why!
2006-08-03 13:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her they looked better on her when she was thinner, be strait up, tell her she might think about losing weight or getting a more appropriate wardrobe. She will appreciate your honesty. JUst tell her that you don't like the way she looks in those particular cloths anymore. Show her in a magazine how you would like her to dress now and maybe buy her some new stuff. Either that or tell her how fat she is and how she needs to lose some weight, but I bet you're no champion yourself so you should go for a good run with her. Tell her you will get in shape together instead of your usual stuffing your faces together rituals.
2006-08-03 13:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell her if I were you. She is wearing these things because it makes her feel good about herself and that is the only reason she should be wearing them. If you think she isn't as pretty in them as she used to be then I think you need to recognize this as your problem and don't make it hers.
I am certain there are times that she isn't too crazy about the things you choose to wear, but keeps it to herself because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. I would say..continue to have the same respect you have had for her by biting your tongue. You will gain nothing from telling her...it will only hurt her feelings. Others may think she looks good in what she wears. So, keep in mind that it is your opinion...not fact.
Anyhow, my point is that I like the fact you have chose to keep quiet so far, and would advise you to continue to do so. Good luck! Most men would have already said their opinion..at least you care about her feelings.
2006-08-03 13:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by ShineOn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in a world of trouble!! If you tell her that. It will hurt her feeling's. If you love her it's not because of what she wears. I do understand you though. What you could do is tell her to let you pick out something for her to wear or start buying her clothes as a present. That is a sore subject with woman well with most woman. ME lol. I think it's great that she feels great about her body. And it's probably because of you that she feels so good about herself. Don't hurt her love her!!
2006-08-03 13:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by Linda S 43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a couple of ideas from a woman who understands -you could surprise her and buy her a 'just because' gift - an outfit you think would look great on her but 'accidentally' buy it a size larger than what she wears now. Or you could watch 'What Not to Wear' on TLC with her (if you could arrange that without making her feel bad) - seriously - I gave in to going up a couple of sizes after seeing them explain (without putting anyone down) that you should dress YOUR body and that you actually have a nicer appearance when clothes fit properly - plus all the tricks they show you to camoflague any not so hot spots.
2006-08-03 13:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 21:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer to take her on a shopping spree.... there are a lot of summer sales! Take her shopping and make a big deal over the clothing that fits well and looks good! Make her feel like a princess in her new clothing!
2006-08-03 13:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by teacherprincessgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out her tags and go buy her something a size or two up. Or take her shopping to pick some new things. Some women just get stuck in a rut with our clothes and don't see what you see. Be gentle with her whatever you do! Good luck!
2006-08-03 13:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by ore2nc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u can offer to take her shopping for clothes that could be a little more flattering to her. but don't tell her that is reason. say something like..u have noticed some of the new styles and you think that they would look good on her...something like that...i know that women can be touchy about their weight..its really cool that you care about her weight and that you want to help her...
2006-08-03 13:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by bumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go shopping with her. And what you have to do is real tricky!! So listen up:
When picking out shirts....make sure the shirt is maybe a lil tight around the breasts...and loose around the stomach area.
With summer clothes: Try to get her to wear capris! They are hot right now! Us women love them.
Good luck and tell me how it goes. You may email me at amandameibeyer@yahoo.com
2006-08-03 13:30:05 · answer #11 · answered by amandameibeyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋