Hi,Im sara,I have a bf that we got acquainted in yahoo messenger6months ago.he is in other city in my country.we r 17 years old.we were in love together & we just had each other,but he bigan intention to me from one month ago for any reason.I just have a phone number from he,but he doesn’t answer my telephones.this his acts make me disappoint & disgust from him &I don’t love him,now.but I want to know his reasons for these acts. Please help me.Iam in a hurry for it because he will going to a far country next week & I will lost him for ever .i don’t know that what I do. Please,help me.thanks
2006-08-03 13:16:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sarah...LIFE GOES ON!. Let him go! He probably doesn't have the guts to say good bye to you, and his silence or his way for not answering your calls is the only way he can tell you "good bye". I am sure he has his reasons, and I am sure he still loves you, but nothing is going to change his mind from moving back. After all, he's only a teenager, still under his parents rules. Just let him go, stay in touch with him via email, or airmail, and perhaps when you're 18, you can visit him to the country he is going to be at. Move on, find yourself another boyfriend. Don't hate him, I know he doesn't hate you. Know that he's under a bit of pressure too that he's moving, and knows that he's leaving a lot behind...friends, cousins, you, pets maybe, what do I know. But trust me...life goes on...just move on, and stay in touch with him, as friends. Good luck, child!
2006-08-03 13:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mstislav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First reason.. Check you grammar.. =p
Seriously, what you two have is an online relationship which is very, very difficult to consider as a serious relationship. You didn't even saw each other personally.. In online relationships, there is a very small chance for one to take the other seriosully.. Some take online relationships as.. A past time.. Something they can have for a time they wanted then dump the next..
You asked why your so-called BF acted like that? Maybe he got bored or found another woman whom eh can see everyday, talk to everyday and go out with..
2006-08-03 21:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by Lei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would let this guy go anywhere he wanted to as long as it was far away from you. This guy is about as bad as they get. He got what he wanted and now like most men, doesnt want you now. This is why hes not returning your phone calls. You want a serious relationship but hes scared and running rather than making a serious relationship with you. You are best to try and forget this idiot and move on and learn from this experience for the future. Good luck
2006-08-03 20:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't want to be with you anymore, there is no way you can change that, but maybe there is a problem? Maybe his mom dont tell him he got call? there are so many things.... if it is supposed to be forever, then it will be.
2006-08-03 20:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by Ali G. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never met! but you were in love?
2006-08-03 20:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by poorboychristian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋