theres something wrong with her.
i cant go cause i dont have a ride, no way there or back i dont really want to go and i have somewhere else to go the next day, but i think shes been meaning to invite me for a while, and THERE IS NO BETTER TIME unfortunatley!!!
2006-08-03 12:57:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Easy, just tell her the truth. You don't have a ride. Also mention that you do have something on your mind about tomorrow's events. Apologize and ask to hang out another time.
2006-08-03 16:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ellias 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to break it to her is to just tell the truth. I mean, you can butter it up a bit to make it sound like you really want to be with her, but don't lie completely. Just say that you're really tired tonight, and you have to get up early to do something the next day, so you'd rather not do something tonight. Then make sure to suggest a rain check. If she's really your friend, so won't take it hard and she'll be cool with it.
2006-08-03 20:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's your friend, be open and honest with her. Tell her what you told us. It's no crime to have no car, or transportation.
She'll understand, that you have other commintments.
Put yourself in her shoes and the situation was reversed. Would you accept her explanation? I'm sure you would, so give her the same respect.
2006-08-03 20:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to go? MIght that be why you don't have a ride?
This is one time, when you need to exaggerate. You could try saying, "Amber, (Is that her name? It doesn't matter.) I'm sorry, but I can't head over to your house, today. Could we please, reschedule?".
2006-08-03 20:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her honestly your problem.
if she is your friend, then she would work something you with you, else she would also understand and leave you alone, and respect your decision.
You won't be able to put her off indefinitely.
2006-08-03 20:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by choy_daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reschedule
2006-08-03 20:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by stefania_n2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well^___________________________^tell her and if she crys tell her to do it next weekend or something!
2006-08-03 20:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by Kelsey M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋