I have been seeing this guy for about 5 months. I recently found out I might have cancer and have been undergoing tests. I have been so stressed out and I have been scared that if i did have it he might leave me beacause of it. I also didnt want him to have to deal with it. So i pushed him away and now he broke it off and ended it. ive intentionally caused probs with him (accusing him, buggin him about what he wants with me, threatening to leave him ect) so he would leave me =( and now that he has im misreable w/out him =( I tried callin him he wont pick up, (i called once and told him i was sorry, i emailed him and told him i was sorry, and i text him and told him i was sorry. i xplained what i was goin thru and he still hasnt responded/called me. its been like a week =( does this mean he does not care =/ should i just forget about trying to fix things
2006-08-03 12:44:24 · 5 answers · asked by questiontime 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Understandably, you've been like a rollercoaster. It might just be too much for him. Let him know you care about him and give him some space.
Good Luck,
2006-08-03 12:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a hard thing to hear. Someone that you care about maybe dying. Maybe someone in his family went through this and he is scared of the situation. Maybe he needs some extra time to regroup his thoughts and his feelings especially if they were leading down the isle. Now he has to be ready for the worst at any time. It is not an easy situation. I was just told that someone I love may have cancer. It is scary and we have been together six years now.
2006-08-03 19:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by thebulktiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand his plight, he's probably afraid of becoming attached just to loose you. I agree with an above poster on the best way to try and tell him your feelings is to write a long handwritten letter and mail it to him. In the days of email and electronics a handwritten letter says alot more than you might think.
2006-08-03 19:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Zach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down and write him a letter from your heart and then send it to him. If he is any kind of man he will get back to you but if he doesn't don't waste any more of your precious time on him. He isn't worth it. Good luck.
2006-08-03 19:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by Gez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just scared like you are or maybe he doesn't want to get to close to you and then u might pass away!!
2006-08-03 19:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋