For those that want to be sassy and act like a dumbass by saying ewww thats gross and all that other bullshit, f---you!
2006-08-03 12:43:53 · 18 answers · asked by petes2084 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In my opinion age doesnt matter, thats just great, that you found someone.
Dont let anyone stop you from marrying the lady..that you...love...right?..
People who say ewww and stuff, are just the people who think about both of you having sex and what not.
Good luck with everything, i hope everything goes well for you.
-Edward
2006-08-03 12:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by cursedconcept 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is true...then, I will answer your question this way. I would like you to ask yourself if this is what you really want. Sometimes we think that what we are doing or going into (for your sake) is the best thing that has ever happend. But underneath that emotional state there is the real you, and I am pretty sure you are not so sure of your own decision.
Sometimes when we are attracted to people it is for a reason. It can because we found love, friendship, support, comfort, kindness, attraction, affection etc. We know that we can love this person we have chosen to be our helpmeet unconditionally. This is why you would want to marry someone.
The age difference does not bother me, but I feel as though you are attracted to this older person 30+ years your senior because you've lacked a certain kind of motherly attention, affection and bonding. When this particular thing is missing we go in search of it and when we think we have found it we call it "love," but it really is not. You are only trying to replace and have what you never had before in life.
I hope that you have truly making the right decision because the age again can be concerning. This women has passed her middle age period and is entered into her senior period.There are alot of issues to take in consideration. Health issues are the major part of it. Now a days 1and 3 seniors are developing Alheimers diseas and this is no joke. Will you be there to take care of her if this were to happen?
How about when you want to do something out of the ordinary and she does not because she sick and that is not her "thing" anymore. Seriously, you are still young. I have a brother your age and he's in college, plays hockey and is traveling with friends...don't you think you should be doing the same?
This is a huge responsibility, why put yourself through this when you have a great life ahead of you?
2006-08-03 20:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by milogz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to go on line to ask for everyones blessing and then print the details you did, you are showing your age and inmaturity by doing so. If youre happy with your relationship, then you dont need anyones blessing other than your families. It doesnt matter what anyone else thinks or says if you two are truly in love. But by asking this online youre only inviting the answers you dont want, but this also tells me you have some doubt in yourself or this relationship, but like I said before youre out to impress no one out here. So if youre really sincere in marrying this older woman then go for it, be happy and good luck and come back on in 5 years and let us know how its going.
2006-08-03 20:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if she turns you on and you guys make each other happy then why does it matter how old she is? I think age is irrelevant as long as you are compatible...Who cares what everyone else thinks anyway. The hell with them. People are so superficial. I don't judge people by looks, age or any of that. It's all by what's inside their heart and how they make your feel and if she makes you happy then by all means marry that woman! And you tell her to go girl for me!!! If I were single I would like to think I could snag a young guy when I am 50....just live in the moment and be happy!
2006-08-03 19:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about the pros and cons of your relationship. How will this marriage affect your life in 5 years, 10 years, etc. My sister married an older man and now 12 years later the age difference has become a problem. Their common interests have changed and they are having major problems because of this.
2006-08-03 19:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Shelly B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age don't have any thing to do with it. My sister married her 9th grade teacher. Everyone said they would never stay together. Here they are now with 2 kid's one of them is in college now and the other is in high school. He's in his 50's and she is in her early 30's. They still love each other so I think age has nothing to do with it. I wish you all the best!! A marriage is what you make of it.
2006-08-03 20:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Linda S 43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have my blessing. Who am i to judge. i think if both of you love each other than why stop at some persons opinions. are you living their life or yours. Age is only a number something alot of people over rationalise. If you were underage then i could see a problem. but you are both adults and you love each other then go for. dont let anyone stop you. Good luck and i hope your wedding is as beautiful as the love you share for each other.
2006-08-03 19:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by ness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations
2006-08-03 19:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great, personally. Of course you have my blessing. Can I come to the wedding?
2006-08-03 19:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by Raggedy Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So...? Age doesn't matter ... if you can accept it. Get on to it and enjoy your hhapy marriage ... hopefully it will last with lots of happiness and love ....
Congratulaion ..
2006-08-03 20:14:17 · answer #10 · answered by Mazlan R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋