I would like to know if there are any other married women out there that is not happy with their marriage and feels trapped due to kids or whatever, I feel the same way I would like to make a relationship with a woman who is married to talk to about this. I believe married folks should hang together to talk about these things and maybe even have a secret relationship to think of ways to be happier.
2006-08-03 12:41:48 · 14 answers · asked by George T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm married with three kids. If I ever saw my husband talk like you are I would kick his *** out. You have to get your mind focused on your family...and no one else. What would happen if you got caught some time down the road and your wife decided to leave you? Is having an affair worth losing your family?
Every relationship has problems, but the couples that make it are the ones that always stick together and stay focused.
I have been unhappy in the past, with my ex-husband, and that's why he's an ex. But my husband now is an excellent man that is a great provider and he always tells me that I'm his inspiration. I am happy in my marriage, and instead of using your energy on finding something else, (the grass ISN'T greener on the other side) focus it on getting closer to your family.
If you feel your sexual life is dull, take it upon yourself to spice things up, explore with your wife - schedule a weekend when you can drop the kids off with grandma or something, and take her to a hotel and spend the night there, take toys and lingerie and candles, and of course, champaign or some kind of liquer. Have fun with her and remember what it was that made you fall in love with her when your relationship was brand new. Good luck!
2006-08-03 13:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u are unhappy in your marriage, you should try everything there is to do and if that dont work out, then get a divorce. You might think your kids wont be happy, but If your happy the kids will be happy. Dont stay in a marriage because of the kids. It is not fair for the kids to see u guys arguing all of time and being put in the middle.
2006-08-03 19:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by luvinmjc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worse feeling in the world is when a MARRIED woman find out her husband is confiding in another woman about their problems. If there is a chance for your marriage, you will blow it out of the water because you will have destroyed the trust, and it's down hill from there. Talk to YOUR wife, not someone else's.
2006-08-03 19:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by deanie1962 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Why not talk to your wife? Shes married
take her out on a date-spice it up a little
everyone has problems now and then-I did-we started going out on dates and doing things together-without the kids-I always wanted the kids with us-ALWAYS-finally one night when we did go out alone-we actually had a great time and I wanted more alone time!!
Just try it....if it doesnt work-I wouldnt suggest an affair-just get divorced-no one is ever trapped-it is better off for the kids to NOT see a dis engaged relationship
Work it out...
good luck
2006-08-03 19:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by bulldog lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason, I sence that you're not married.
Looking for "easy" and "safe" harbor? She's married, you're married, you're both safe...
Allright, here is the reason I think you're not married: married man, who already has problems in marriage, is probably tired of listening to his WIFE. It is possible he's not listening correctly, but that's beyond the point.
Still wanna talk to a married woman? Talk to your mom.
2006-08-03 20:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently in this situation right now....I am married and I have tried marriage counseling. It didn't help however. I am trying it again to talk to my therapist as I have no intimacy in my relationship with my husband and my marriage is failing. I am in no position to leave the marriage as I cannot work or drive due to a medical condition....I would love to talk to you about this....
2006-08-03 20:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to know if there are any other married women out there to talk to ..........Aren't you a guy? You should be asking for any married woman, not other, it leads us to believe that you are a woman too. If you are a woman then you should change your id and you avatar pic.
2006-08-03 19:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a woman who has found out my husband has had *secret* friends--don't do it--it hurts like hell. If you are not happy it's best to let her know that and move on or if you want to try to work it out..do that--but don't betray her trust in you
2006-08-03 20:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by jaynikhole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a great marriage but I suggest you that instead of talking to strangers try to fix your relationship with your wife. A marriage is private, you can't share your feelings with strangers! Instead of doing that talk with your wife to make everything better and SOON! Best of Luck! ~V.J.~
2006-08-03 19:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF is wrong with you? Like seriously if you are in a relationship with someone you hate get out of it. Don't ruin other peoples lives just because you are ******* up in the head. But I am sure your dad did it to your mom. Losers learn from the best.
2006-08-03 20:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by Annette T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋