I hear a lot of women say they want to know what it's like to be with another woman, but they want to keep it on the low. Then you have the confused women, who don't know what they want, and do not even want to admitt they are bi,yet they want to keep sleeping with women on the low(having their cake and eating it too without saying happy birthday). I have come across women like these sometimes, and I was wondering if any lesbians get tired of this?
2006-08-03 12:20:47 · 11 answers · asked by indrep33 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
A lot of people answering tend to think I'm dissing bisexuala. I'm not. I'm dissing the one that are ashamedor deny being with women like cowards.
2006-08-04 12:10:31 · update #1
first off let me say...Love the way you expressed it...'haveing there cake and eating it too without saying happy birthday'...I'm sick of women that think it's ok to do this..are they embarrest by what they want, or do they just dont want to deal with the crap from being 'out ' with another chic..I use to work with this chic that was like that,behind closed doors,it was mmm me and you.....but outside nahhh keep your distance.
2006-08-03 19:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by raven jack. 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't diss bisexual girls. Being bi you get heat from both sides, straight and lesbians. There may be curious women that have jaden you but don't blame a whole group of people for that.
Read on how lesbians need to come around:
http://www.bimagazine.org/nonfict/pages/personal2.html
In reply to rude post: Bisexuals are not confused any more then lesbians or straight people. Don't judge without education.
2006-08-04 00:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For all you haters--
I am bisexual, thankyouverymuch. I am NOT indecisive, or confused. I'm NOT bi because it's cool, or the in thing, or because I think it will get me drinks at the bar.
I NEVER slept with different people two nights in a row, and in the 8 years I've been sexually active, have been with only four partners.
You have NO RIGHT to judge the confused, the unsure, the bisexual. You may not tknow their story or what they are going through.
I love the soul in the body. So thank you, haters, because I know not to waste my time on your judgementedness. I have already found me someone who doesn't care, and we have been together MONOGAMOUSLY for over three years.
2006-08-03 20:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Songbird 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As if being bi was "cool' or something.
i run into so many girls who think being bi is some kind of trend.
I think bi girls are just confused and selfish really.
They cant commit to being anything.
At least straight girls know what they want.
Id rather hang with straight girls any day.
Im very tired of bi girls
Besides, who wants to be with some girl whos probably been with some guy the night before.
Gross
2006-08-03 19:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I get sick of it, too. I got a girl who tries to talk to me now, and she says she's bi, but she's so totally into men and I think I'm the first girl she's ever been attracted to like that. It's frustrating, so I just keep things strictly friend-like between us, nothing more, nothing less.
2006-08-03 21:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by Agent Double EL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I use to date women who were not really sure, now I make it a point to date women that know what they want. Its so much easier. For me only Lesbians allowed.
2006-08-03 19:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by mylife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, I'm not sure if my ex would count. she is, as far as I'm concerned, a lesbian in denial...a total closet case. she stays legally married to a man and won't admit she's gay. I'm don't think she was with me just because she wanted to "know what it's like." and I know she hates sex with men, so....you figure that one out! anyway...I got so tired of her denial and refusal to commit...so I had to end it.
2006-08-03 20:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course we get tired of it, but it's up to you weather you want to keep on dealing with it or not, i choose to deal with strickly Lez Women.. i mean i dont knock Bi women but i cant deal with it....
2006-08-03 20:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by T@J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why so insensitive, they have figure out if they like it, like when dating guys, you just have to see if it works for you, stop picking the wrong people and crying about it.
2006-08-03 20:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by criegnicealaways 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was one of those, but not really as a trend thing. I was really trying to figure myself out. And...I turned out to be a lesbian. Yay for me.
2006-08-03 20:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋