Why are some people so immature to not accept the marriage of 21 year old guy to 50 year old woman?

Question

That is also childish when girls that guys age say that is ewww, or nasty. Those girls like that don't need a man.

Answer 1

umm, because marrying your grandma isn't cool dude. she's probably using her boobs for a belt, or tucking them into her socks.

Answer 2

Sorry, I know that you have feelings now, but this is too weird. What do you have in common and can you sustain it? You can't look forward to a stable family life with kids and the rest of it.
Wind forward and imagine that when you have just turned 41, what many people consider the prime of an adult life, she will be 70. God, she may be using a walker when you want to go camping and hiking.
There will be too many differences from tastes in music to a mutual circle of friends, etc. Think long term and don't get boxed in so that you never get a chance to experience a full and well rounded life.

Answer 3

It just doen't seem healthy. At age 21 you have alot of growing to do. I believe you are limiting yourself marry some one that old. Dating a 50 year old doesn't make you more mature it just show that your mate is immature because she has not found out who she is yet or her worth. She is looking for a good time and wants to feel love and adore. Things that she have been through or going through you woudn't be able to understand like someone her age because you don't have the experience

Answer 4

It's not a matter of immaturity, actually. I personally think, even if the situation were switched around it's inappropriate. She could be his mother... It's not disgusting, just wrong. Girls like that -do- need a man, but he may be too immature for her. But everyone to their own. Don't claim someone lacks maturity because they believe something different than you. My opinion is that people shouldn't date others that are old enough to be, if not already older than their parents. It is far more likely that she will die before him, leaving him alone and sad. Who wants that?

Answer 5

It's obvious!!! I am not jugding you though. People think that marrying a 50 yearold woman is well... really stupid. But it's not stupid. My mom was only 18 when she got married to a 37 year old guy! I don't get what their so immature about. It can actually be cool if your in your right mind.

Answer 6

Because it is ewwwwwww. Come on what could a 21 year old and a 50 year possibly have in common? I'd say someone has some serious mommy issues.

Answer 7

People cannot accept the fact that the woman is twice your age...it's almost like marrying your grandmother...and that is so rare. If you love her then don't worry about what others say anyway...because I doubt you are going to find a whole lot of support on this matter.

Answer 8

in view that this is interior the ettiquette section, the nicely suited answer is "no." this isn't sturdy ettiquette to curse all people out for any reason. in case you will asked in yet another classification, the respond would be that this is as much as the 21 twelve months old -- he gets to make your ideas up on his own habit and responses, and notice you later as they fall in need of breaking the regulation or violating the rights of yet another, there's no longer a bleepin' element all people can do approximately it.

Answer 9

age means nothing to a relationtship like yours as long as you are both happy thats all that matters.Age is just a way of knowing how long one's *** has been pointed to the ground.all these people who make unwanted comments have no idea of what love is.I say that if you are both happy and content with each other then whatever anyone else says is just a sign of jealousy on their part and you and your partner should be proud of the love you have for each other.It is love like yours that makes a woman feel special and that is something that you never want to loose.

Answer 10

here's some heads up to boost you. People are just dumb. all humans are. They don't know what its like to fall in love and age is irrelivent when someone is in love. my parents are 43 and 53 years old. my step mother is 53, dad is 43. it doesn't matter though because they love one another. So listen to me when I make this clear, they have never experienced true love if they say those things. Im not saying true love is falling in love with someone of that age older than you, its just it doesn't matter what age you are as long as you love the person your with. they just don't understand and THAT is why they are immature. hope this helps.*smiles*

Answer 11

You are only 21yrs old! There are tons of beautiful young women your own age out there! It sounds to me like you are either selling your self short. or that you are just looking for a SUGAR MAMA!!!! But honey, let me tell you this, it doesn't matter which one of these silly ideas that you decide to choose! (If not both) YOU ARE GOING TO BE SCREWING YOUR LIFE UP FOR SURE!!!! AND THAT'S A FACT!!!! But this is your life! So you do with it what you want too!!!! It is none of our business anyway! It sounds to me like you are having doubts about marring this 50yr old lady your self anyway! But you just don't want to believe it! That is why you are asking every one all of these stupid questions!!!!
I pray that you will come to your senses and give up on this outrageous idea all together!!!!
Good Luck, & God Bless You!!!!