i have kind of a problem. im too quiet. only at school though, at home im usually pretty darn loud. haha
its really annoying. and i dont know what to do :(
and people are like, just talk! and sometimes its like, "well theres nothing to say!" and you see all the loud people blah blah blah. and im like ummm yeah. no talking.
help! what should i do to become more loud? :(
2006-08-03 12:08:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thankss! :D
2006-08-03 12:23:00 · update #1
I don't think being quiet is bad. It's worse to be loud! As long as people know you're friendly, there's nothing wrong with keeping your mouth shut unless you have something to say.
2006-08-03 12:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought that being out in the open with people talking loud has no interest for you.I know quiet a few quiet people and the reason for this is because they have nothing to say or the topics being talked about just don't intrest them.In time a subject may come up and then you may shock yourself by actually having something to say and then that woill shock a lot of people around you.until then just keep on being who you are and let time be the decision maker as to when you will get loud.
2006-08-03 19:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I was just like you at school! Really quiet, but not shy! I just didn't know what to say half the time...
I joined a drama group. It wasn't easy at first, but then I realised that we were all in the same boat, so it didn't matter.
Just make small talk... hows it going? Did you see that TV programme last night? Whats your favourite song at the moment? Hows such a thing going?
You might have noticed that its a lot easier to chat online and be yourself. What I did, was everytime I typed something I read it out loud. Then after a while, it just comes natural when you're talking to people in real life!
If you want to chat sometime, send me an IM on dj_fizzypops if you want to practice or anythin.
Hope this helps! Good luck!
2006-08-03 19:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by DJ Fizzy xx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why in the world do you want to be loud, people talk all the time and say absoluetely nothing, maybe you need to talk a little more, but you know intellegent people never really talk unless they have something to say... so i wouldnt jump into something like being loud because pretty soon people will start ignoring every thing you say if you talk all the time. it sound like to me you are really young and think that the popular people talk and you dont, lay back and watch those people some time and you will see what i am telling you.
2006-08-03 19:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omgoodness grl i am the exact same way that is soo crazy. I know it gets annoying cuz u know ur not quiet but it's impossible to prove to people. Just tell them "Im not quiet, I just dont have anything to say to u" I know its harsh but it works as an excuse and they understand so try it. I am like "I'M NOT SHY!!!" but maybe u just have to accept that u are because it's hard for me to talk to people that I don't know because I'm always sooo sarcastic and always joking around and I dont know how they react to that so I just keep quiet. I have to really really know the person to be really open with them and maybe thats a good thing[i don't know]. Anywayz b4 I write a book here lol, let me tell u what helps me. U have to always tell yourself that life is too short for u to be sitting in ur room all day and not talking to anybody and inside ur head u have to kind of talk urself into doing it but thays ok because it works. U have to get out there and show everyone who u are. Just say "hi whats ur name" and there are soo many things in the world to talk about. Pick one.Just bring up some things u like to do or things u wanna do. Maybe u should tell ur friends to come to ur house since it makes u soo loud.lol So best of lucks.
2006-08-03 19:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by *Boricua* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the same with me! At home, I yell the hell out of me and at school, it's like if you say something wrong, then you'll get in trouble or something like that. At school, you just get really shy of other people. You think you may get the wrong answer and people will laugh at you if you do. That is with me. But don't worry, it will pass. Just when you think you know the asnwer, say it even though it may be wrong, the teacher is not oging to laugh at you, and even if some kids do, just ignore them because this is for your own good education.
2006-08-03 19:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who don't know me often make assumptions that I'm shy. But those who know me have realised that I'm quiet but not shy and say that I am an observer: So my strength lies in seeing rather than speaking. But then when I'm at home sometimes I might go into a non stop high energy talk for a couple of hours, so I need to learn to balance it out probally.
When i was at school I would have people who would come up to me & say 'wow she talks' (well duh) I sometimes wonder if I cud telepathically talk instead?
2006-08-07 17:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by magic_unicorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the same way in school, but my reason was because i was too worried about what other's thought of me. Now it doesn't matter and I talk too much. You should figure out why you don't talk at school, and then go from there
2006-08-03 19:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by Dragonfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your loud at home then its just a matter of you finding people that allow to be comfortable with yourself. At home your complelty comfortable with yourself and that version of you can be taking outside under the proper conditions.
2006-08-03 19:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay quiet. If you have nothing to say then don't talk. Sometimes it is better to be quiet and thought a fool than to speak and leave no doubt.
2006-08-03 19:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ethan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋