Okay I have two friends!! When they are both together they hate me!! But when they are apart they blame each other for the reason why they hate me and my friends!! They always talk about people behind their backs but I never thought one of those people would be me!! They have become stuck up snobs and they still say they like me but I can tell they don't!! Should I stay there friend or just pick a fight with them and not go to there funeral!!!
2006-08-03 12:06:00 · 8 answers · asked by LiveLifeTheWayYouWish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'll make this plain and simple. Life is way to short to play games.
There are so many other people who will keep it real for you.
Friend are people to Cherish so it is OK to be selective. Move on Sweetie!
2006-08-03 12:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by soundlady 5 · 7⤊ 2⤋
lol.. ok. sounds like these people are NOT good friend material. who cares if they're nice to u sometimes, if they're not nice other times its an indicator that they are not loyal. i had a similar situation.. i had two roomates and we were all 3 good friends... but when we all hung out, i felt left out sometimes, and they would make mean comments to me....i didn't understand it! but when i hung out w/ them separately, it was ok (actually, one girl was a really good friend, the other one i didn't really like thaat much). so i think the bad one was influencing the quieter, nice one. what i ended up doing was hanging out more w/ other friends, and stopping my dependence on them. i started doing more things for myself, by myself, and i felt better about myself. later they screwed each other, and were not friends for a long time. because i was out of it a long time ago, i wasn't part of their drama later. don't do anything u'll regret; just slowly get closer to other people who deserve it, tell them ur busy when they call, etc etc....and let those two be together like they deserve.
2006-08-03 19:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo, is these your only friends??? Be smart and
get on with life. Try to associate with people that respects others, have clean manners and
project positive thoughts. Sounds like you are
really down on life.There's over 6 billion of us on earth(plus aliens) so you can find some decent pals to hang with. Choose wisely my good neighbor. Later!
2006-08-03 19:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by Bro Ja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find better freinds and just ignore tham..They will get the message. If they say anything to you just tell them to come back when they grow up
2006-08-03 19:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from them because real friends dont talk about each other. Dont trust them!
2006-08-03 19:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be their friends anymore. That simple. If they act like that around you, then they have a problem.
2006-08-03 19:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by Kat B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt be friends with either
2006-08-03 19:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you fight him. violence only causes more problems. If they don't want to be your friend anymore, jus ignore them.
2006-08-03 19:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by lakersforlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋