A girl that I used to be friends with turned out to be a really two-faced person. I see her sometimes but I dont know what to tell her. She says "Hi" and I say "Hi" back but I ignore her most of the time. She starts a conversation but I look away everytime I talk to her. How should I handle this situation? Should I tell her what I think of her?
2006-08-03 11:55:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It appears, dear, that you, too, are being very two-faced. If you no longer want to have a relationship with this person, then you need to tell her. You aren't being fair to yourself or her by keeping up this game of "Hi, don't talk to me." If you want to cut ties, then you need to maturely tell her what she did that you preceived as being two-faced and let her know that you do not tolerate that kind of behavior from your friends. It is possible that she didn't mean to be acting in manner that was two-faced, but it is always possible she did. Either way, it isn't fair to be treating her badly if you haven't given her fair chance to explain the situation that made you angry. If the explination is stupid, or if you still feel she was acting in a two-faced manner, then you need to cut ties and let her know you are not going to continue the charade of being friends.
Good luck.
2006-08-03 12:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by Lanie Janie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some people change and some don't, but how are you sup post to know unless you give her a chance!! Shes obviously sorry for what she did and wants to be friends!! Talk to her and tell her what you feel!! If it doesn't work then don't talk to her ever again because trust me third time isn't always the charm!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-03 19:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by LiveLifeTheWayYouWish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to let it go... the only reason i would say to talk it out w/ her is if ur trying to keep the friendship; trying to tell her why u thought she was wrong...but if she doesn't care, she won't give a crap what u say. if she does care, then she's like gonna wanna talk to u and apologize and stuff. do u want that, or do u just want to let the friendship go cuz u don't trust her? figure out what u want first.... if u wanna give it a try, talk it over w/ her. if not, let it go.. it's not good to tell someone off in anger... u might regret it later.
2006-08-03 19:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn right tell her! Personally a hard punch in the face should relay the message nicely!
2006-08-03 18:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by Dani California 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a clean,polite manner tell her how you feel. Do offer to be friendly, but don't expect to be
close.Try to forgive, but don't be a chump and get played again. Maybe you'll be longtime friends, yet, don't risk your heart again. Later.
2006-08-03 19:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by Bro Ja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stop avoiding her and tell her why you are upset with her. once you do that then you may be able to work things out. sometimes when thing like this happen it is merely a misunderstanding.
2006-08-03 19:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try telling her, but if you're to scared or something... Then go with plan B= Try to avoid her the best you can. If that doesn't work... Then tell her how you feel....
2006-08-03 19:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by Kat B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what u really think this life is too short to be suga coatin things and actin like u like someone when u dont
2006-08-03 19:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't deal with two faced biatches! And don't speak to her again.
2006-08-03 19:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want to be friends with her again.
2006-08-03 19:00:30 · answer #10 · answered by jjc92787 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋