2006-08-03 11:53:32 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Take all of his money...
2006-08-03 11:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by LaToyaSR 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to work on your marriage go to a marriage counselor. If he doesn't want to go then get a divorce because he is not interested in being faithful and he is not ready to stop. If you decide to work it out then make sure he no longer sees that person anymore. If they are in your family then, make sure that he stay away from them. You might need to as well to heal. You have to know for sure though that he is interested in staying married to you because if he isn't then don't prolong your pain, and get a divorce. It is hard but in time every heart heal, no matter how deep the scars. The worst thing you can do though is blame yourself because you had nothing to do with his infidelity. Everyone who cheats make that decision on their own and no matter what is going between you, it is a selfish act. You must not forgive him though and pretend that it will never happen again. What ever made him go to someone else is still there and will lead him astray again, no matter how much he tells you he won't do it again. Also you need help with the pain and anger that you are feeling. Sometimes it is easier to talk to someone outside of the situation to give the both of you a different prospective and to help you be sane through this difficult time.
2006-08-03 12:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends how YOU are?!!! you could shoot him, beat the man up, or have an affair yourself, quit the marriage, separate for awhile, forgive him, or join him in a threeway. personally, i'd do the threeway to find out what all the fuss is about and to see what type of gal he's been cheating on you with. maybe she's spectacular...in & out of bed! maybe you'll like her more than your husband does. you can stay with her and the both of you dump the guy. don't fly off the handle til you've seen whats really going on. ask your husband to bring her over to meet her. she may actually be a very nice person. she may not even realize your man is married. so don't condemn her yet. remember, your only getting one side of the story. if she and he are truly in love, step aside graciously and move on. you'll be a better person for it.
2006-08-03 12:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by pete cochino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you confront him, You let him know you know and that it is unacceptable. You take control of your life and don't let him continue this affair. Give him a choice, either he's married to you or he isn't and out on his own. Don't be foolish and believe what he says, they lie and say they aren't having an affair. You need to establish what you will not tolerate in your marriage and give consequences for going against you. Personally, I'd give him his walking papers.
2006-08-03 11:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice name, and picture. Anyway, I think that you should waste no more time on the bastard. What he did tells you everything about his character and being with him or around him will do nothing more but taint your own personality and well-being. Besides, he doesn't deserve you. And I implore you, PLEASE do not listen to his excuses, whining, or pleads for mercy because you most likely still love him and if he has time to work on you, you may not leave him. However, once a person cheats on you, you don't want them, nor should you believe that they wouldn't do it again...hope that was helpful and good luck.
2006-08-03 12:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by marielpantera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first get a lawyer and find out the laws in the state, that way he wont try and take everything from u. 2. have proof and be sure. # confront him and tell him. after that it is up to u..... if it were me i would leave. no use being there with some man who stuck his thing into another person and then tell u he loves u.. lier.
2006-08-03 12:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by afl0wer4u2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to end the marriage? If so, then leave his a**.
Or ask him why he did it. What is he missing? Did he just do it for the thrill? Hopefully if he tells you why then you can work towards building a trusting relationship again.
2006-08-03 12:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him. Then tell him he blew it and leave. Sorry, but my trust can only extend so far. If he does it to me once, then I know he will always that other woman in the corner of his mind, and I won't be the only one that he thinks about being with.
2006-08-03 12:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by skooter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer
2006-08-03 13:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by Izzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would cheat on him back and then tell him (of course after I proved HE was cheating too) I cheated, laugh in his face, tell him I hate him calmly and walk out with my new man!
2006-08-03 12:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack his bags. put them out side, change the locks, take the coils of of the car so he drive it. then go and find the ***** he's been seeing. slash her tires. file for divorce take all his money out of the count. and open up another one.
2006-08-03 12:01:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋