I have been in a bad relationship for a long time. For about six months we have been in a so called "open" relationship, however neither of us were being open. We were supposed to have the option that if we did want someone else we could just talk about it and it would be okay and we could go our own ways. Yesterday I was asked out on a date by a guy. Today as agreed I told him about it and now he has flipped out. He wants to talk more about it (so far he has only screamed at me) and I am worried that when we talk tonight things could hit the wall, with me included. I wanted to meet in a public area for this reason but he refuses. He wants a one on one conversation which I can understand but we have a unstable history. I just need some advice as to handle this. More info that's needed is that we have been off and on for five yrs. It will take me months to find all his stuff and vise versa. If I could not give/get things back it would be great but that's also not an option.
2006-08-03 11:26:42 · 7 answers · asked by wicked 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Best thing for you to do. Open your own bank account if not already. Put money in there save it up. . Then after a certain lenght of time leave there with every thing you can. But if it is your place just pack his things up one day when he is working, When he comes home just tell him you two have not gotton along in a long time and you think it better for him to move out. But don't back down, You can tell him he can come bye later and get the rest of it; . Bu you don;t want him to be abusive to you, you can't take it any more, There is no excuse for him to be that way. Good Luck Pat
2006-08-03 11:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like much of a relationship to begin with and then with the added worry of an open relationship I think you two would be better off getting serious with only eachother or just going your separate ways.
2006-08-03 18:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question by worrying about this. If this man leans towards voilence and jealous rages, run for your life cause it might be your life in danger. Sounds like it is time to get out while you can. Don't spend your time with someone that you fear what will happen if you don't do as your told.
2006-08-03 18:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what i would do if i was the girl in this relation ship which i would be a guy but oh well nvm ok u know what i mean i woul like text/email him and stay away from him .
2006-08-03 18:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by jamieadams_rocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet in public, have someone go with you, tell him point blank it is over. Don't worry about material things, your safety and personal happiness are more important.
2006-08-03 18:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by funrdhdpeach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in one of these situations and i didn't know what to do either. what i did was i sat him down and talked to him calmly and if he starts to yell at you then ask him what he thinks about the issue and maybe things could work out?
2006-08-03 18:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by getrdonebabe2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one owns you. Make the break.
2006-08-03 18:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by Track Walker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋