I have asked a no sex before marriage question, and alot of the people that believe in that have total danced around the question, instead of admitting that there wedding night sucked!!!
Anyway on to the question, Why is so important and a gift that you saved each other for marriage( beside STD and all that crap ever heard of condoms), isn't it more of a gift that you are giving each other you heart and soul, body and mind to each other for the rest of your life?
2006-08-03 10:55:37 · 8 answers · asked by R R 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How would you know the difference if it was more special or better if you are a virgin on your wedding night
2006-08-03 11:03:40 · update #1
No one is being Honest about there sucky sex wedding night?? BE HONEST
2006-08-03 11:04:53 · update #2
No Dude my wedding night was awesome, b/c we had great sex before we got married? My first time was not great, and anyone you ask will say the same thing
2006-08-03 11:13:08 · update #3
If it is a horror story you are looking for, I've got one. I dated him for 2 years. No sex for religious reasons. The wedding night was a sexual nightmare! He was impotent and he sobbed like a blithering idiot (which he was) half the night. He thought I was less experienced than I was, although I told him different before the marriage. He tried to tell me sexual satisfaction was all in the mind! He lied about his impotence and after several trips to the doctor alone, I finally went with him and insisted on being present during the consultation. It was the first time the doctor had heard there was a problem! Turns out I would have needed to be a teen aged boy to turn him on! The marriage lasted 3 months.
If I had it to do over again I would still have maintained celibacy because that was a positive choice for me and my faith. However, I would have read the signs that were there that he was an idiot and a pedophile. They were there, but because he was a minister, and I wanted to marry him, I didn't want to see them.
I'm older, wiser, and much happier divorced.
Hope this sad story makes you happy.
BTW, MY FIRST TIME WAS THE BEST I EVER HAD!
2006-08-03 11:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 5 · 18⤊ 11⤋
Yes, I read your other question, and all the responses, with interest. I simply cannot believe that there are so many people who actually feel that it matters whether or not them or their partner had had sex with other people before. No offense, but I think the reason why they didn't address your actual question was because they're used to dogmatic thinking, not to analyzing their motives. I don't know, I totally agree with you about giving a gift of heart and soul to each other; in fact, IMO, it feels so much more special when someone has been "around the block a few times", and yet they choose to be with you, and not with all these other people who may have gone before.
I know I didn't answer your question, but I wanted to let you know I thought it was a good question.
2006-08-03 11:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy Ego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-01-28 12:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very true- your heart mind and soul for life. Sex is the highest form of communication. It is speaking to the other like no other way. Reserving it for the first itme of the wedding night makes it that much more special.
2006-08-03 11:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will never have a wedding night, because I don't believe in marriage; however, men who are virgins cannot do ***** in bed, so yeah, if I'm ever with a virgin, I am certain it will bite. Give me a guy who's had at least twenty partners. That's experience, and experience is what it takes.
2006-08-03 11:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ALL a gift. I was honoured to know no other woman had touched my husband just as no other man had ever touched me. There was no one to compare each other to. We learned together, experimented together and have a wonderful sex life. The wedding night was great. It was great because it was pure, sweet, innocent and we were giving ourselves to each other knowing that no one else had ever had us or ever would.
2006-08-03 11:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea true ,but dont you want to try out what u will have 4 ever ?what if you both do it on the wedding night and realize that your not compatable? same goes for living toghter be4 marriage.
2006-08-03 11:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by NFL RULES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your the only one who had a sucky wedding night
2006-08-03 11:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by snail 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋