I have been chating with this guy in my campus over internet,I don't know him & he want us to meet. What can I do or say 2 him???
2006-08-03 10:53:44 · 16 answers · asked by nontoh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
are you shure he's on your campus?? it might just be some freaky smelly old guy that says he's on campus!
2006-08-03 10:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to meet, first of all it must be done in a public place where you can get to help if you need it. A very short meeting at first. Have some friends nearby just in case. (Go to a mall or something) I met my fiance' on the Internet, but everyone that's on here isn't the same and there are some real nuts out here. (Like the man who I had never seen who had planned our wedding already and wanted to go and raise chickens and turkeys) Let him know it will be short. If you like what you see repeat the process a couple of times before you decide to be alone with him. By then, any glaring red flags should have gone up and you can go from there.
2006-08-11 08:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by kalischild57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't u watch Lifetime? CSI, Law & Order or better yet pick up a news paper?? Never meet a stranger....
2006-08-11 05:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by aintdatsumshet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only meet this person in a public crowded place. Library, School Commons....a local McD's....Never I repeat NEVER meet this person alone.
This person could be a perverted sexual predator...just trying to lure you into meeting him/her!!
Take precautions...go with a friend...NOT alone!
2006-08-10 23:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here is what you can do.....tell him to meet you somewhere that you can see him but he cant see you......then go and check him out to make sure he is someone you want to meet.... if he is great and if not then you can at least give him an excuse such as no thanks I am just not ready to meet anyone...I just want chat friends right now. Good luck
2006-08-03 11:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by Lindy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you trust him then he's good enough to meet your parents.
Inform your parents and invite him to your place so your parents will also know this guy you're spending your time with.
A family-get-together is a perfect time to establish a good relationship of getting-to-know each other.
2006-08-10 20:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by cascadingrainbows 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do it.....
just bring a friend.....
even if you trust that person already,it helps if you have someone with you....
the first meeting should just be as casual as it should be.
be true to yourself if you really want this guy then go out and have fun!
2006-08-11 05:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by darknight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your interest is that peaked....take 2 friends, hang out for a while and if he seems normal/ok then you can call him another time and hang out. i would NOT go alone the first time, it is very dangerous out there.
2006-08-03 11:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
meet with him only if he comes to Ur area
yes u can
but bring a shocker with u
or this spray to blind people
2006-08-03 11:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by Edvard F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TAKE A FRIEND AND I MEAN A MALE FRIEND THAT IS BIG AND HUGE AND IF THERE IS ANY FUNNY BUSINESS HE WILL THINK TWICE ABOUT ANY WRONG DOINGS IF NOT PLEASE DONT GO YOU DONT EVEN KNOW IF HE IS A STUDENT OR WHAT JUST PLEASE BE SAFE IN WHAT EVER YOU CHOOSE BUT TAKE A FRIEND
2006-08-11 08:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋