Why do so many men come to this site to make disgusting comments about women?.?

Question

Look at the links below. I just picked those questions at random (I've seen much worse); everytime I visit this site I see thousands of questions from men that insult women in the most disgusting ways. When will men behave like human beings? I'm disgusted with what I've seen here. Most of you do not have the nerve to say these things in public, but it's interesting to come here and see that there are so many men who are really cavemen masquerading as civilised people.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvTKXNBqUfdKd9RF7QLq24rsy6IX?qid=20060803133110AAJKLHo

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=At11RCYAziWiqTN0VPT4lGLsy6IX?qid=20060803134314AATcqFX

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArDZREIlnpAE69leQeRpthHsy6IX?qid=20060730134339AAtdT2Q

Answer 1

Not all men are like this--thankfully! But those who are feel the need to express it whenever they get the chance. This isn't because of malice or even the need to say something honest, even if it is distasteful, but because society allows and even encourages this behavior. They are insecure and are constantly being told by society (men AND women) that they have to be "manly" and prove their masculinity...and no one in thier lives has ever stepped forward to teach them any other way to be. When I see grown men who act this way, I don't actually blame THEM for it, I blame their mothers and their fathers, especially since I am also a man, and my parents taught me that it's not polite to be an idiot and then announce it to the entire world.

Answer 2

Lets face facts...

The internet, lets people think that thay are annonymous and can ask the silliest questions, and give the more inane remarks, and have no consequences with it.

They dont realize that they hurt feelings, or incite violence, or any other things like that, because its the "immature" people who ask the silliest questions and laugh when they get a "rise" out of some one...

People who are here to answer questions, even try to accomodate the lame ones, hoping that they will see that there are serious people on the net...

Some, never get a clue, and continue this venue...

While others, grow up as they explore the questions and answers of others...

I wish you well..

Jesse

Answer 3

Hey, dannygirl

I looked at the links. I think the first two are ill or not true. Let's face it, some people have mental issues and many of those issues may be gender-related. When I looked at the first one, I thought "he probably doesn't even have a girlfriend. He got brutally dumped, and now he is bitter and he is imagining things". We are trained not to hate people with physical illness, but it is harder not to dislike people with mental problems.

Third one, however, is different. The boy is just trying to figure stuff out. The way he poses the question pisses you off, because it pre-supposes that women are deficient, and he is just asking why are they deficient. Don't worry about him either. He seems young. He'll learn.

Remember, men are very insecure because they don't know if they will reproduce. One intercource guaranees them nothing. (For a fertile woman on the right day - one intercourse is all she need to reproduce.) Their brains are overheating. They do everything in their power to get a woman. One way is intimidation and bulliyng. It's not a good way. It fails as soon as "his" woman discovers something better. (Aha, this is when they get dumped and bitter and the visious cycle repeats)
They don't want to go other way - treating woman with respect. Because they are simply afraid to get hurt again.
Good men with normal self-esteem don't have that fear out of control because if they are good they will alwayf find a woman that will stick with them, no need to worry.


Forgive them. They are just trying to figure stuiff out.

I get annoyed when I see them, but I'm glad I'm running into those. I like to know what kind of world do I live in.

Answer 4

1. Not all men are like that.

2. Sounds like those males are inexperienced in healthy relationships with women, and when disappointed after being cut loose, they respond immaturely. They're just venting in a place where no one can hold them accountable with big consequences.

3. Some of those males may really have difficulty in getting a girl to notice them, & are awkward & shy with women in person, but aggressive & nasty online. Rest assured that they probably don't have someone significant in their life. Who would want to be with a man who treats women in a despicable manner.

4. They are miserable males, so don't take it personally. They don't know you. They are nobodys. Remember that.

Answer 5

In my experience many of my fellow men have a lack of self-confidence and self-respect. Instead of working to increase their self-confidence they resort to insulting and disgusting actions for the shock value, hoping it will impress a female. Also, many men don't respect themselves enough to act correctly so they aren't going to respect another person who is civilized.
There may be more men that act this way than women but some women have the same problem(s).
Davidj

Answer 6

Um, check out this one. I think I had nightmares last night.


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnjfMeVf4daMhkdxN0nsqG_sy6IX?qid=20060802022234AAdIlKS

Answer 7

What make you think they are men? Since males don't reach full maturity until age 30, they are mostly showing their childish nature. Also, remember, many of these question violate the rules, so instead of just complaining click on the report abuse and report them as containing obscene or profane content.

Answer 8

Internet trolls. They're worse here than some other places, probably because of how big yahoo has gotten. We get 'em in the GLBT section pretty hardcore too. Would you be surprised to hear that there's some of the same ones?

Answer 9

Chinese speaking to a Chinese operator?
Caller : Hello, can I speak to Annie Wan ??
Operator : Yes, you can speak to me.
Caller: No, I want to speak to Annie Wan!
Operator: You are talking to someone! Who is this?
Caller: I'm Sum Wan .And I need to talk to Annie Wan! It's urgent.
Operator: I know u are someone and u want to talk to anyone! But? what's this urgent matter about?
Caller: Well just tell my sister Annie Wan that our brother,Noe
Wan was involved in an accident.
Noe Wan got? injured and now Noe Wan is being sent to the hospital. Right now,? Avery Wan is on his way to the hospital.
Operator: Look if no one was injured and no one was sent to the hospital
from the accident that isn't an urgent matter!
You may find this hilarious but I don't have time for this!
?Caller: You are so rude! Who are you?
Operator: I'm Saw Lee.
Caller: Yes! You should be sorry. Now give me your name!!

Answer 10

Sadly to say, because they can! This is an open forum and you will not agree with everything mentioned here. I usually don't respond to those questions anyways. There a lot of other categories to choose from.