Okay.I gave up! My bro. he is older than me. He keeps making fun of me. At first I tried ignoring him but he won't stop. I tryed to make fun of him too but it didn't work. What should i do? please help. It's really getting to me.thanks!
(p.s.) he is 17 and I am 15.
2006-08-03 10:12:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah.. i tried to beat him up but it didn't work ( he is stronger than me!). I tried to talk to him calmly but he doesn't seem to get the message. What really bother me most the way he makes fun of me when i am talking. :((
2006-08-03 10:26:10 · update #1
aw he's just being immature....
and well, ever hear the saying that girls mature 2 years faster than guys?
if your 15....and mature faster than a guy by 2 years......then hey you're kind of the same age in a way...........cept guys will always be immature >< grr lol
just ignore him, or laugh when he says something about you, like if he calls you a baby then own it....tell him to get things for you because you cant because your only a baby =P
i have an older brother, we're 2 years apart too......we didn't get along much until i was like 12-13, and I'm 17 now and we still fight sometimes
good luck
2006-08-03 10:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do here is to out smart him. Pick something that he lacks in and do it better, showing it off and making him feel the way he did whenever he did it to you.
Eventually he will get the message. Then he will finally come down from his high horse and get real again. He will thank you much later in life for teaching him that valuable lesson of respect that he had to learn early in life when you were in his life.
2006-08-03 17:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hon, ya just gotta take it, and dish it right back to him, of course, he'll turn around, put some spin on it, and throw it right back at you.
Its a good thing, exchanges like that sharpen your mind to come up with quick responses. The biggest thing is to take it as what it is. Play. He's just doing it to get a rise out of you, so just play back. It won't stop, but it'll make it bearable.
2006-08-03 17:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried to make it stop once and it just made things worse. He kept hitting me and making fun of me, so I retaliated and hit him back and tripped him. He got up even more pissed off and started chasing me. I ran into the hallway and locked myself in his room slamming the door behind me. Alll I heard was a scream and I opened the door. I see him grabbing his hand with tears in his eyes - I slammed the door on his fingers!
I almost said i was sorry, until he brought his hand up in a fist and proceeded to punch me. I slammed the door againa nd he punched a hole through it. I guess he was pretty mad. I told my mom and she made him buy a new door. WE didn't talk for about a week, but he still continues to bug me!
That's what big brothers do!!!
2006-08-03 17:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother is showing signs of insecurity. By putting you down, he feels better about himself. It might work to try to give him some positive statements like, "Hey, have you been working out?" Or, "you sure know your stuff when it comes to ______."
This is what is known as "doing unto others as you would have them do unto you."
2006-08-03 17:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by larry r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he is asleep and hurt the f*** out of him by whacking him with a hammer friggin repeatedly. That will permanently shut him up. He will hate you but he will never bother you again.
2006-08-03 17:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid him and ignore him, show a who cares attitude, like u could care less that he says anything to u...go out with friends more, me and my brother used to nag at each other all the time, but as u get older it changes, he's a boy, boys do that, and he's ur brother, brothers are supposed to be that way...besides, he could do worse right?
2006-08-03 17:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by matrix15sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should remain him of his age and make fun of the fact he doesn't have a girlfriend.because trust me he's to busy making fun of you he's just got much damn free time on his hands.have you tired talking to your parents about it.or just talk to him as the young responsible lady you are and tell me how much it bothers you that he make fun of you all the time and if he can just lay of a bit.
2006-08-03 17:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by sexydiabla592 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't respond to any of his re-mark's.Stay silent.It will drive him nut's!Every time you say anything back to him it's like handing him "fuel for the fire".Bite your tongue and leave the room.He's going to get mad.So be ready.Say nothing,he will eventually find some one else to pick on.The same thing happened to my grand kid's.It worked for them.
2006-08-03 17:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be a punk! torture him! i use 2 have the same problem. but it all kinna stopped, when i use 2 do stuff 2 him when he was sleepin, like but hot sauce on his lip, or toothpaste, damp his shoes wit water, n things like that. y don't u hit him upside his head, or start dissin him.? u gotta do sumtin. or its neva gonna stop.
(my bro's 20, n i'm 13. he still acts like a kid)
2006-08-03 17:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by WHAT!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋