well me and mah boi wanna have sex but i keep pushing the idea away cuz im scared i mean dose it hurt, is a condom safe enough or should i just push the idea of making sweet love away until im older?
2006-08-03 09:41:52 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ummmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....I think you better be safe and wait until you are a little older. Your screen name indicates that you are 12? Oy Vey!
A condom is not safe completely and you are far too young to have babies yet.
My best offer is to ask your mom to discuss these feelings with her. She is your mom...and the one who should give the best advice!
Good Luck! I hope you make the right decision.
2006-08-03 09:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It does help to have answers to all your questions first, before you try it. Don't worry, it is only part of what is natural to everyone and it will be enjoyable, with time.
If your b/f does things right, it won't hurt you at all. In fact, you will find it enjoyable and pleasure will all be yours. However, he has to do it right.... which means.... he has to spend some time gettting you "wet"..... a term that you will or probably know about already before you can have intercourse. ... This is best done when your in the mood for that, and it begins with alot of soft, sensual kisses all over from your b/f... Then you have to be fondled, your breasts and nipples have to be caressed and all... you get the point. The most erotic parts of a female body are the nipples and the clitoris...which means your b/f has to make sure these areas are caressed in a way that makes you smile., alot.
Yes, it would help if your b/f wears a condom. Make sure he does and if he does not, tell him, "Sorry, no glove, no love".... and insist on that too.
Remember, sex is a natural part of all of us. We all need it, and some of us need it more than others. It depends on you and your expectations and your understanding first.
2006-08-03 09:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to type and possibly speak legible and correct English before you even come close to having sex and possibly creating a new being like you.
I mean if you have to ask will it hurt, does a condom work and you are using words like making sweet love, you are watching way too much television, you are obviously too young that you have not had sex education and your parents are too naive to say anything to you about procreation.
Be a little girl, don't rush into trying to become a slut so soon in life, I am sure High school will give you plenty of time to do that.
2006-08-03 09:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how old you are. Condom or no condom, it's painless. Nothing to be scared about, except the fact, that you will eventually become pregnant, girl. But if your're younger than 22, push the idea away, until you'[re older or even married.
2006-08-03 09:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If U know that U r not old enough then Ur not. sex is something seroius and U need to wait until U have total responsibility for urself. right now ur under ur parents gardianship. Take ur time it will still be popular when ur older.
2006-08-03 09:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to have sex now and with the guy you are with? don't have sex if you are not ready, it may be your girl intuition talking and protecting you. use protection if you do have sex, yes condoms...does the guy you are with care for you, do you think that if the relationship fails after sex you will feel really hurt by it...if you do it, do it with a guy who you know long enough who cares about you as you do about him and that you are both ready for the outcome of sex in your relationship...good luck
2006-08-03 12:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should waith but if you do it you will not regreat and gonna hook in to sex but yes is gonna hurt you a little the 2 or 3 first time.
2006-08-03 09:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well Depends how old you are you should at least wait untill
you finich high school you don't want to be the word of the school
couse that boy will let all his friends know!! Or unless its some one out of your high school. But I won't hurt. The first time is
the expirince one and you won't enjoy it unless he is expirianced.
2006-08-03 09:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by yaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I surely hope that the 1994 in your name is NOT your date of birth cause if that's the case honey, you are WAY, WAY to young to even be THINKING about having sex...
I think you should learn spelling and grammar before you worry about having sex...
2006-08-03 09:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll regret it trust me. Wait until you're older. You don't want to get pregnant, or get aids, or have everyone at school calling u a hoe cause your bf told everyone
2006-08-03 09:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by ani2525 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋