What would u do if a guy whose been in love with u all his life(since u were 2 he was 5)Ivy League educated great guy good educated family background family loves u,he loves u wants to spend rest of ur life together as ur best friend(love)doesnt want to marry wont meet since he says he cant commit.U are engaged but best friend takes u away against ur wishes with u resisting professes his love tries to make love to u.talk spend 3 days together(without making love)sorting out problems says he wants u back wants to commit marry.u know best friend closely 6yrs all life as family friends been thru everything but other guy few months.Would u break off engagement marry best friend or keep to ur commitment.
My best friend/love show how much he loves me i didnt cheat being engaged he took me against my will but everythings fine.PLEASE DONT SAY WAIT OR MOVE ON.What to do
2006-08-03 09:39:12 · 14 answers · asked by inthatgoldenheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah who do you really have feelings for? You should ask that question to your self and all I could tell you is hope you make the right choice!!!!!! Good luck!!!
2006-08-03 10:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by ShYGiRl*87 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
little confused...how can u marry best friend if he said he doesnt want to marry and cant commit. sounds like its the thrill of the chase for him. dont get caught up in it and let him have his way. stick with the nice guy. i wish i did instead of going the adventurous route with the guy that sounds like your best friend. life would have been much different. dont think it matters that the guy is ivy league educated. if he is honest, dependable, and has good family values that mesh with your own then i would set my sights on this relationship.
2006-08-03 10:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by badonggi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your stupid enough to let any relationship cause you to kill yourself,then by all means rid the gene pool of your particular weakness.
At 5 and 2 the only love involved here was the love of a good diaper dump. Get over it. IF it doesnt work with "Fiancee" then get what you can.
2006-08-11 04:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definatly think you should get help instead of throwing your life away! I think you should seriously stop being so depressed and try to be happy with what you've got like counting you blessings that might help you. I think you should follow your heart, it always knows best for you.
2006-08-11 07:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What for you want to kill yourself over that matter. What more important in life is your live. Imagine who would look after your parent went you kill yourself.. who would look after your sibling if you kill yoursel??. Remember this.. life as you know is short.. dont make it more shorter for you. make use of it to do better thing.. think about the future. dont ruined your future over that matter. ok..=)
2006-08-11 07:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by lomelo_haikal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with what ur heart says who do u really love and which one u think really loves u
2006-08-11 02:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by juicylucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to figure out which one you love and want to be with...If you are having doubts about marring your fiance then your not ready. maybe you should take a break from all of them and figure out who you want to be with.
2006-08-03 10:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
break off, don't let n e body hold u back from live. u might be sad for a while but u will be okay. and besides its for the better.
2006-08-11 08:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if he couldn't Commit then He don't want to Commit now szo chose wisely
2006-08-11 07:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by Nicca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send me your email address, and I will give you my thoughts. I am a mother of two toddlers, and I can't imagine what you are going through, but I do have some thoughts about it, if you are serious?
ladybugpickle@yahoo.com
2006-08-03 10:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by MommyOf2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋