Disowning your Child or Parents?

Question

Children: Have you or a sibling been disowned by your parents?
If so why? What's your opinion on it?

For Parents: Would you ever disown your child?
If so why? What would you consider good enough reason?

Answer 1

This should never happen among families.

Answer 2

My Father disowned me back in the early 80's.Why?Well,to tell you the truth,I'm not really sure.The relationship between a Father and his Son is very complicated.
My Father and I were like oil and water.We didn't see eye to eye on anything.Sometimes he would disagree with me just to start a fight.I guess the only person that really knows why he did that is him.
I think both of us said and did things we both regretted later.Unfortunately,we never had a chance to work out our differences because he passed away six years ago.
As the years moved on, I realized he was just doing the best he could do and that there's no owners manual for being a Father or a Son.I also realized I still love him and miss him.
I think it's deplorable that a parent would do this to their own flesh and blood but at the same time, I can see a parent getting so desperate that they would do it as a last resort.

Answer 3

My 3 older sisters disowned my father, after claiming he molested them 20 years ago. They tried to get my younger sister and I out of my fathers house. Claiming that he would have done the same to us. That was 10 years ago after being out through the ringer of our court system they found that my sisters had made it all up because my father wouldn't cosign for my oldest sister. Now all 3 of them have come back to my father begging forgiveness and my father has disowned them because it ruined his life. The way I look at it is be careful what and why you disown someone if it is for a real and just reason then weigh it carefully, You never know when or if you might want or need them in your life.

Answer 4

I don't think this should ever happen. My father disowned me. It's not a good feeling to be disowned by a family member, especially coming from a parent. Family should work life out together. They are supposed to be there for you no matter what.

Answer 5

I would never disown my children....nothing would EVER be a good enough reason...I accept them, faults and all

I did disown my own parents....it was an abusive household and as soon as I turned 18 and graduated high school I was out of there....haven't talked to them since nor do I ever intend to again and I'm a happier person...and don't intend on ever putting my children in that situation...I look at it like this, if you are crazy and disfunctional, I don't deal with you...

Answer 6

My daughter has given me countless sleepness nights due to her (bad) behaviour since she was tiny and even now as an adult she is still causing me grief. BUT -she is my child, my first born, my flesh and blood and I love her more than words can say. There is NO reason whatsoever that would cause me to disown her. Family is family - no matter what!

Answer 7

Do you mean disown as in disinherit? Or just get so angry with you never speak to them again?

I am horrified to hear anyone has intentionally stopped speaking to a parent or child. That's sad!

Answer 8

This does happen! Sometimes the parent just dosn't like the child, or the child just dosn't get along with the parents.

Sometimes mothers after giving birth is just revolted by their babies (PMDEPESSION) ...there are many different reasons why parents/children separate them selves from each other.

Answer 9

This shouldn't happen, but the truth is that it does. So, I really suggest prayer. God can work anything out. I'm in a messed up family life. I live with my grandparents! My mom wouldn't let me grow up. But I will break the cycle when I choose to give life 4 sure! If you are struggling with this E-mail me I'm here 4 u!

Answer 10

that's no longer perfect with the aid of any potential. regrettably, we can not administration what human beings do. we are in a position to in basic terms attempt to assist %. up the products for the persons who're harm in considered one of those situation. yet a new child continues to be your new child, no remember what their sexual determination is... in the event that they throw them out or disown them, they're in simple terms undesirable mum and dad and are incredibly, in essence, vulnerable and small human beings.

Answer 11

THIS HAS BEEN AN ONGOING ISSUE HOWEVER IF MY CHILD DIsOWNED ME FOR NO GOOD REASON IT WOULD HURT BUT MATURE ENOUGH TO WAIT FOR HE OR SHE TO COME AROUND I WOULD NEVER DISOWN MY CHILD GOOD BAD OR INDIFFERENT MY LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL