i know this because although ive sent nearly 29 emails trying to make friends etc ive had no answers to them or my recent questions
2006-08-03 09:36:17 · 33 answers · asked by RAYMOND H 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
ok. so then you're mailing the wrong people...
2006-08-03 09:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by Just Moi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why tell people you are disabled on the Interest. Your disability I assume doesn't effect you ability to use a computer or to make friends. Try using ICQ IRC. I'm on most nights. I'm English, so I'm on from around 9pm to when I get tired or bored. Find me in #Friends_too and other rooms. But I usually monitor that room - because I set it up. I can ban anyone who prats about. Check out my website too. It takes a little time to make friends on the Internet. There is a certain etiquette to learn. But don't just email people, that's spam and they will ignore unsolicited emails. You can send me an email. The email address is on my website and I'll give that as a source:
2006-08-03 23:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mike10613 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well mine don't always get answered either, people are busy.
I'm disabled and handicapped too. I'm on SS and have been since the early 1990's. But I've never told anyone that. So it's not your disability it's just the wrong connection perhaps, you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. Do you do Genealogy? I do. Got any hobbies? (besides the computer)
2006-08-03 09:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by JBWPLGCSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I put questions on here and get little answers. try asking more provoking questions. You seem to be making the big issue out of your disability here. This is an answers bay, no-one even knows your personal details unless you tell them. People are more likely to put off by the way you project yourself than the disabilities themselves. I go for an inclusive theory for everyone and would not judge anyone by their appearance/difficulties. Be a Ray of sunshine and we will take a shine to you.
2006-08-04 04:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by fizzycrystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,Ray.First thing is,why bother telling people you're h/capped & about your sexuality?Why not just be yourself and let your personality come through?I'm sure there are a lot of people on here with all sorts of problems.I'm sorry to say it,but you seem to feel very sorry for yourself.I do not allow any-one to email me,simply because I'm not much good at 1 to 1 chat.Here I can ask & answer when I want.I think the people here are great,please stop being too pushy about making friends,& it will come about naturally.This is constructive criticism,I sincerly hope it helps you.
2006-08-03 09:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by michael k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody knows you are disabled ...i am disabled in some ways too...just get on here and click on a name and see if they will talk with you...i am answering questions and i am not to happy today but we all get that way...i am sorry if you have sent 29 emails and no one has got back to you..but evidently you are not getting ahold of the right people..good luck and do not be so down...live one day at a time and count your blessings..
2006-08-03 09:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would anybody know that about you? The nice thing about internet friends is that there is no discrimination when they can't see you to judge you.
I'm sure you're a great person...keep trying and don't take it personally.
I myself don't communicate through e-mails, chat rooms, etc. The raciest I'll get for communication is on Yahoo answers. Could be you just haven't found people who like to talk on-line.
Good luck!
2006-08-03 09:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by AlloAllo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're hung up on physical attributes. Why are you labeling yourself? Is that really what you think of yourself "handicapped and disabled?" How about "generous, kind, loveable, caring, intelligent man" what's wrong with that? I think you need to stop thinking of your disability as a hindrance, and get over yourself and go out and meet people, and do things that you like to do. Besides, if it's online, what do you care what online people think of you? They're 99.9% crazy anyhow! LOL
2006-08-03 09:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by Tessa ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It annoys me when people blame not having any friends on a disability or their looks, weight etc, maybe there is another reason people find it hard to talk to you have you thought about this, personally a disability would not put me off talking to someone.
2006-08-03 09:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They could be difficult questions to answer, or maybe people are just afraid of saying something that could hurt your feelings. I've asked questions with 1 small reply before.
Try emailing some more people - they were obviously the wrong people to try to make friends with if they do that to you.
Best wishes.
2006-08-03 09:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by jeffner1990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do we know you are disabled, i am new to all this and i have never seen any of you emails just this one. whats up with you , it sounds like you have a big downer on your self, chill out this wasn't really a good question to ask, may be you should ask some thing else and people may answer
2006-08-03 09:45:16 · answer #11 · answered by Sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋