Well i have just made a new friend
and i think she is cool
but my cuzin keeps wanting to hang around with us alot
when she dose not like it when i hang around with her freinds
i have explained to her about it, but today her dog was not very well, so i said she could come round, but she got really close to to my freind, and swaped addies and everything
i guess i am jealous but anyoyed at the same time.
what should i do?
( for the best answers i will give u highest rating)
2006-08-03 09:32:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Try not to let your cousin know when you are hanging out with your new friend, and if she does find out and asks to come along, just say no, Claire Bear. You have a right to have your own friends and enjoy them all by yourself!
2006-08-03 09:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she is really your friend then out of politeness she took the address. If they become friends you have two choices back out or try to be friends with both. Some people have a hard time with being friends with more than one person at a time, and there is nothing wrong with that. Honesty is the best policy. Tell both how it made you feel if they choose each other than in the future tell your cousin she is not welcome with your outings with your friends unless you are invited to outings with hers. Stand up for yourself no one else is (I would if I were there of course) exchange addresses with a few of her friends you like see how she feels. Don't be mean just be honest maybe you two can share many of the same friends or at least agree not to hang together except when it is just the two of you. Family will always be family friends will come and go. Good Luck. And Remember to have a true friend is to be a true friend. Love, cherish, forgive,trust.... and if it doesn't come back they never were your friend and move on with grace and style because there are many people looking for a friend just like you. :-)
2006-08-03 17:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are notorious for being unable to share friends....and that stinks. i say it's best to take the high road, and be honest with both of them. tell them you like them both, and want to spend time with them. tell them you are afraid that you'll lose them both. you might find that they are afraid of the same thing. try to find activities that all of you can do together, where you don't have to compete. go to the movies, shopping - get some art supplies, and work together - all 3 of you on a mural for your wall. do things together, and you will make your circle of friends stronger! good luck!
2006-08-03 16:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by amuse4you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why the competition, there is such a thing as mutual friends. it is up to your new friend to decide if she want to hang out with your cousin also.
2006-08-03 17:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by jimmbobobb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋