Occasionally while dating, if anything occurs that is a big turn-on for me, like enticing behavior, flirting, subtle foreplay, dirty dancing, or necking, I tend to get a slow oozing of semen, even if I am in public and remain flaccid. It seems to be just a few tiny drops but, sometimes can be enough to cause a wet spot on the front of my pants. What can I do to prevent this embarrassing situation without sacrificing an enjoyable evening or my own comfort? (No, I won’t ware a plastic diaper!)
Is there something that is causing this besides my own natural anticipation?
Thanks
2006-08-03 09:30:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
This is a perfectly normal behavior resulting from being sexually aroused. The fluid is a pre lubricant that is secreted by your cowpers glands. The function of the lubricant is two fold. First, it cleans the urine out of your urethra and creates a less acid environment for the semen soon to follow. Secondly, it is very slippery and it oozes so that it covers the end of the penis and will make it easier for you to insert into your lady friends vagina. You are fortunate in that you produce a large amount and you have good control of your arousal so that in early forplay you do not get an erection but remain flaccid. Just before you begin such activities step into the boys room pick a stall and put a condom on over just the tip or top half of your penis. That will prevent the spotting.
2006-08-03 09:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by Geo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world of being a grown-up male. This is a natural bodily function and will continue to happen as long as you live and can be turned on.
The suggestion of a condom is a good on, then when you get home you can roll it the rest of the way down and put that lubricant to good use.
Seriously though, it is natural, I had many a wet spot on my pants when I was a teenager in high school dating this really hot little brunette. Tissues in you briefs or even a second pair of briefs will help, also tuck yourself way down so that the wet spot would be more down between your legs and less visible.
Good luck and hang onto her, you must like her, it shows.
2006-08-04 20:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like pre-***. It happens to a lot of people, when excited and anticipated something exciting.
Try wearing dark trousers and it won't be so noticeable. Avoid beige or cream trousers!
2006-08-03 09:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by GayAtheist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happens to me. So I will have a piece of paper towel in my briefs to absorb. Of course you can't do that is you wear boxers.
2006-08-03 09:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by cut_seven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you wear boxers or briefs. Good cotton briefs should prevent anything from showing up on your pants unless you piss yourself.
2006-08-03 09:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by Andy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG this happens to me wen im flaccid and by my bf
2006-08-03 09:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is perfectly normal behaviour for your penis/prostate gland.
2006-08-03 09:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
use a panty liner.
2006-08-03 09:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋